Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

ok well here is one of the emails he's sent me. I have another bf! who i really love!!! help me!

"I changed my mind about asking D. speaking of, you still dating J.
Why the lunch lady? what about the pda law? I just got a truck and me and my parents are moving to R.C. If you want to talk to me call at 123-4567.

see you soon,

A"

Help he clearly still likes me and I have no romantic feelings for him what so ever!!!!!!!!!!! He is suppose to not like me for breaking up w/ him for another guy!

2006-10-12 10:01:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 10:01:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 10:00:56 · 5 answers · asked by lil miss country gurl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and reminds you that you just couldnt live with out her!!

2006-10-12 10:00:28 · 5 answers · asked by TEMPTRESS 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So this guy I like and I were sitting with a bunch of friends at a bar.We're not close friends or anything but he was teasing me a bit like "We'lll get you drunk" "Don't climb onto the table!" Than he offered me some of his chicken. He seems a bit shy, like other than the teasing he didn't initiate much conversation but when i did,he was listening to me and responded. What do you guys think? Food=flirt?

2006-10-12 10:00:23 · 8 answers · asked by dimples18 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, my friend she was on and off for like the millionth times and (last time)this time they broke up because they didn't like what each other were wearing(werid).But during those times she like him and some other guy. And it's werid because most of the time at lunch or something she would be hanging out with the boys and after all she still doesn't like them(but i know she does).And one day I told her who I like and I found out that we like the some people and now it's werid because now she more "open" so now she tells me evry thing but don't know what to say.

2006-10-12 10:00:16 · 3 answers · asked by LALALALALALALALALALA 3 in Friends

slim, olive skinned green eyed brunette, or slim fair skinned blue eyed blonde, apparently, you have to be slim, so i am told!

2006-10-12 09:59:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have known this boy for 3 years. he's my best friend and we have always had fun together. i didnt notice i liked him until he started dating another girl. (i was so jealous) Now that they have broken up i need to know. should i tell him how i feel or just remain friends.

2006-10-12 09:59:29 · 12 answers · asked by J*a*Y 2 in Singles & Dating

Me & My boyfriend of 1year now just started to use this book as therapy. We write back & forth to each other in it with concerns,problems or just our feelings. I recently asked my boyfriend how we could spice things up in bed..what he would like. He named a couple stuff..and then one of my questions was "Would you ever have a threesome?" And he answered "The most extreme thing i would ever do is have a threesome with 2 girls and me" Should i be hurt and angry that he told me that? We are really protective over each other..and i thought that if 2 people are in love..they respect each other not to want to do things like that.

2006-10-12 09:59:08 · 21 answers · asked by Destiny Jay 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 09:58:43 · 9 answers · asked by buddahfest2004 2 in Singles & Dating

the blonde girls I have been out with hav'nt treated me with much respect but the dark haired girl have been great...any idea's !?

2006-10-12 09:58:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I m very sorry about this Q but my husband is a shy person and he doesn't do any thing makes me happy so i will teach him how to have love with me in a good way

2006-10-12 09:58:16 · 13 answers · asked by nansy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i asked him 3 days ago!!! is he shy or is it a no?!?!?!

2006-10-12 09:58:09 · 9 answers · asked by walks with goats 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 09:57:34 · 7 answers · asked by Student 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why did some idiot find it funny to ask advice on cheating on his wife and what he should. He shouldn't have sleep with her sister and he wanted advice on what to do. MUPPET. Have you ever been cheated on and wanted your partner to just drop dead. Why do people find it so funny. Who agrees with me it isn't a laughing matter.

2006-10-12 09:57:32 · 14 answers · asked by hatfieldnomi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 09:57:13 · 6 answers · asked by chocolate tea 3 in Friends

I have been dating this guy. We went on two dates together. Friday we were supposed to do something. Go to the beach however, he calls me last night. He tells me that he does not think we should see eachother anymore because it is getting too serious. He told me on our first date he was looking for a long term relationship. He was in his early 20's. I think he might of been afraid going steady or something. Could I be right? Was he afraid of commitment or going steady?

2006-10-12 09:56:57 · 9 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, since february when i broke up with her i cant forget her, i just want to hold her again in my arms, to kiss, and tell her i love her... a relation ship of 2 years broken by her friends gossip...the question is in fact : how can i get over her?
thanks a lot!!

2006-10-12 09:56:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, I went to Cardiff over a week ago. On the train back I met this amazing girl. I thought we really clicked and I found she goes to a nearby uni. I gave her my mobile number and email (i didn't take hers because I have a bad habit of acting desperate when it comes to girls and didn't want to scare her off).
Anyway, I've had no reply and think she isn't interested. My friends, however, think she has lost my number and think I should go look for her at this nearby uni. I know enough about her to find her (I think) on the campus (including name and course).
Ladies I ask u. Does this sound like the mark of a sad, desperate and scary individual? If it is then I'll guess I'm correct and leave it be. Or do u think it is rather corny and sweet and worth attempting. Honest answers and opinions please.

2006-10-12 09:56:52 · 10 answers · asked by Knight-wing 3 in Singles & Dating

has anyone been through a divorce by default and how long does it take once i´ve received the order od default signed by the juged?

2006-10-12 09:55:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How come every time i meet a guy they turn out to be the type that just want to hit it and quit it?that makes me mad i just want a guy to like me for me!!!!!!!!! What should i do????

2006-10-12 09:55:37 · 5 answers · asked by jenna 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this guy a few days ago. We were all out as a group and me and him were sitting in the backseat of the car. I said I was cold and he put his arms around me and cuddled me, then he asked me if I wanted to wear his jacket. Was he being nice or does he like me? By the way, he also asked me for my number. Guys would you cuddle a girl you barely knew, and if so would that mean you liked her?
I saw him on Saturday and now it's Thursday. Why would he ask for my number if he's not gonna call me?

2006-10-12 09:54:13 · 9 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, he asked me to move in with me as soon as we met... and the first couple of months I was over the moon.. he kept sayin he doesnt want anyone to steal me from him etc...

but its been some time now that I think he doesnt want me anymore...

My reasons are:

1) the other night we were taking photos and his ex was taking it he kept telling her that she should be in the photo too... but he never think of me that way .. I mean I keep taking photos usually even on my own birthday he was taking photos with me and never asked me to pass the camera to him to take some photo..

2) he doesnt have sex with me until I want it!

3) he thinks of me as his slave... expect the house to be clean, dishes to be washed as soon as dinner is finish.. etc.. but doesnt do a thing

Now I want to leave him but we have got a house which has contract for another 5 months and its joint contract.. I dont know what to do.. and I dont want to move back to my mum

2006-10-12 09:53:56 · 22 answers · asked by * 271805086182 * 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm fixing to get married but my fiance has been acting funny. Like one night he went out with his bestfriend but didnt tell me they invited a girl to go with them. It wasnt a big deal so why couldnt he tell me? Then today I find emails from a girl he use to have sex with ( they didnt date, just had sex ) she is married now and has a child, but in the email she talked how she didnt know he had a gf because last time they talked he had never spoken of one. He has been acting really distant latley saying he has class work which he never use to have, he said its because its after mid-term ( he is in college ) i dont know if he has really been busy or not. I couldnt even call him last night because out of nowhere he had 2 papaers to write. So whats he thinking?

2006-10-12 09:53:33 · 6 answers · asked by kelli_w_85 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Seeming how Yahoo thinks I'm in violation, which is bull.....I was just wondering who likes tea???? GEEEEZZZZZZ!!!!!

2006-10-12 09:53:00 · 8 answers · asked by inlovewow 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 09:52:31 · 10 answers · asked by down2earth 2 in Singles & Dating

Flirting through aggression??????????????
My best friend is always hitting me playfully. She is a girl, I'm a guy, we are 15, and people keep saying she is flirting. Today, for example, she just hit me in the head with a school book (lol) for no reason. We have known each other for 2 years. First off, do you think this actually is her way of flirting? She doesn't do it to other people. And also, what should I do back? Should I also playfully mess around with her?
Is this actually a way of flirting?
Also, when she isn't messing like this, she is more serious to me than others, she tells me if she is feeling bad.

Another thing related to mthis is that when we are around friends, she does this and we playfully mock each other, but when we are alone she is more sincere with me.
All of theis is playfull, she is fairly petite, so its not as if she could do me any damage.

I do like her back, alot.

2006-10-12 09:51:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is constantly on the verge of financial ruin - and is just scraping by by developing properties and selling them on. My garage is full of her stuff (as well as other friends places, and her ex's storage unit) - but she keeps having disaster after disaster - the kids now live with their father because the properties aren't fit to live in while she's developing them - and now her car is knackered and she can't take the restof the stuff from my garage. Should i give her an ultimatum? She's quite a firey scary person and it could be the end of the friendship. On the other hand, I need to empty the garage to put my bfs stuff in, so he can sell his house and move in with me....but I am not sure....we've been together 15 years but its been on and off.....and not moving her stuff gives me an excuse to put him off. Help! I just want my life back!!

2006-10-12 09:51:33 · 9 answers · asked by Miss Behavin 5 in Friends

Is your fiance overly excited about the planning of your wedding, that sometimes it gets on your nerves. I'm just asking becasue I find myself talking about the wedding so much, and I hope I'm not getting on his nerves. I am just so excited!!!!

2006-10-12 09:51:29 · 5 answers · asked by me 1 in Weddings

I am planning to take a last minute trip out of town. I wanted to ask my cousin (he is older than me) if I could stay at his place for a couple of days. I called and left two messages and he has not returned my calls. I also left a message with his son. In the message I did not say that I wanted to stay over, but I did explain why I was traveling to their area. I have been out of touch with them for about 8 years. I lived near them in college, then spent many years out of the country. I spoke to my cousin's wife once last year. I inititated the phone call, just to catch up. So I am wondering if it is out of place (assuming they return my phone call) for me to ask if I can stay with them. When I spoke to my cousin's wife last year, she said the next time I was in town I could stay with them. But I called them last night, and still haven't heard back, so I am wondering if I should even ask them when/if they call back. Or is it better to just see if they invite me over?

2006-10-12 09:51:21 · 6 answers · asked by Yoshi 2 in Family