Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

The thing is I get freaked out when a stranger talks to me and I end up saying hello then asking a million questions about the person. So when a stranger or strangers want to talk to me what should I say? I'm afraid to tell there other person(s) anything about me b/c of all the news on tv about internet preditors. Any idea's on what to say or do?

2006-10-12 10:11:38 · 7 answers · asked by missgigglebunny 7 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has so many qualities i love but the one I don't is that she walks like a guy would. Its kind of like a confident stride walk. How do I tell her to stop without offending her? I believe women should walk like women.

2006-10-12 10:11:15 · 13 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 10:10:54 · 11 answers · asked by lovenicci 2 in Singles & Dating

how can i get him back for treating me this way, so i can get it across to him that it really hurt me? talking doesnt work......HELP

2006-10-12 10:10:43 · 9 answers · asked by Brierley 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 10:10:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

saw those photos, how would she react? I think she may have seen them but hasn't said anything to me. She has been treating me differently.

2006-10-12 10:10:34 · 10 answers · asked by pillabrut 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom just went through a lot of old junk that I'd been keeping around her house and among the discoveries were a few old drawings my ex-boyfriend had done and given to my while we were together. I know he'd love to have the originals back because I know he's still proud of his artwork (I recently stumbled upon an online journal of his and he has scanned copies of the art displayed)... but I really don't want to have anything to do with him anymore. He was.... let's just say "very mean". I'm glad I got away and I was hoping never to see him again.

Now I'm torn... should I suck it up and contact him and be a good person even though he doesn't deserve it or should I spare myself the pain and just throw them away (he'll never know what he's missing anyway)?

I don't know what to do...... I'd appreciate any advice. Thanks.

2006-10-12 10:10:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 10:09:47 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

..ok so there's this boy at school and over the summer we talked he goes to mah school but he said that he was thinkin bout me and him(like i dont know wat that means) but every since then we just havent really talked but he is always looking at me and stuff during class..and i always like think bout him wen ever iam not by him...what does that mean?

2006-10-12 10:09:35 · 8 answers · asked by Bri 1 in Singles & Dating

so i have this friend who i really like. i cant keep hanging out with her knowing well never be more than friends. i asked her out a year ago but she said no. i kind of get the vibe she likes me now but i cant know for sure. should i just flat out ask? should i try asking her out again? i know that i cant keep hanging out with her knowing well only stay friends. so what should i do?

2006-10-12 10:09:34 · 11 answers · asked by cronaldo17 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 10:09:21 · 5 answers · asked by Killer 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if a man who left his wife is no longer in love with her? Is the fact that he left for another woman evidence enough? What are the signs that he still may be hung up on her?

2006-10-12 10:08:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok im in the 6th grade. He;s in the 7th. He plays football so I see him in the morning. And after school when he picks up his brother and goes to football pratice. On friday of last week my friend got his together and asked him did he like me, he said yeah so we go together but we havent talked since that day. I seen him on tuesday because monday we didnt have school. On wednesday i didnt c him and today he was absent and 2morrow what if i dont talk 2 him. i really like him and i have 2 get him 2 like me!!!What should I do and when i do talk2 him whut should I say???I REALLY NEED HELP

2006-10-12 10:08:08 · 1 answers · asked by tishygurl06 2 in Friends

I am concerned about her roaming the house when we are sleeping

2006-10-12 10:07:26 · 15 answers · asked by therojoman 1 in Family

Okay my husband is 36 and I am 26. He always starts the arguments and yes I end up getting mad and saying something that I dont mean and he does the same and then he would leave for the whole day not telling me what he is doing. Then when he comes back home he will close hiself in his office and ingnore me and his two month old daughter. Then when I want to talk to him why is is so mad and/or upset he don't want to talk about it. Even though he has been avoiding the topic all day. I have to keep on talking to him to tell me why. When he acts like this it cuts like a knife any suggestions?

2006-10-12 10:07:24 · 11 answers · asked by chrissy20us 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do when your boyfriend kisses his brother's girlfriend and you really want to get back at him. This is going around I don't know if its truth or not!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-12 10:07:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok this guy at school asked me if I would go out with this other guy I think is kinda cute and like a little. well I don't know if he was just joking around trying to be stupid and to see if I liked him or if the other guy really does like me. WHAT SHOULD I DO??? I would go out with him if only i knew if he liked me or not.. I don't want to make a fool out of myself. so if you have some good advice could you please help me!!!! THANKS

2006-10-12 10:06:36 · 3 answers · asked by sexychic5362 2 in Singles & Dating

We have not gotten together yet but we flirt all the time and truly care for each other he went to college about 2 hours away from me but will be back for winter break, we worked together as baggers at a grocery store. we always make each other laugh.he's 18 I'm 24. yes I am 24 but I have not had most of the experiences people my age had high school was hard on me making friends because everyone was so superfical now things are different but my personality fits better with 16-19 year olds I'm real silly and Tom loves to hear my crazy stories and I want to have a relationship with him.he's never had a g/f b-4 and he's not interested in girls at college more than friends. we haven't had a problem with just communicating on the comp and I know he's loyal so how do we make a full transistion to being together.it's kinda like we are but we don't say it. Tom is real affectionate, loves to hug and touch me when he can. I plan to kiss him when we hang out on break. but before then, any advice?

2006-10-12 10:06:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married 31 years. I work and my husband is retired. Would I be entitled to his retrement plan after divorce, and still after he dies? I always wanted my own retirement plan, but he canceled all the insurance policies in my name. I'd appreciate any advice, pref. from a lawyer. Just need to know this before I take any further steps.

It may be important to know that I earn very well, but still have nothing for retirement, because my husband was responsible for that. I payed off the house, and all other expenses.
Thank you so much.

2006-10-12 10:05:58 · 21 answers · asked by bluebyou 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i think its normal for the kids to wake up in the morning. my husband was raised to be woken at night. i think that stupid. it takes away the joy . what do you think- my husbands jewish. is that why?

2006-10-12 10:05:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a little bother (13) who can't focus on school. He is a good kid but I can't seem to motivate him and him get interested in doing good or pay attention. He doesn't follow the teachers rules, does not do any of his work, all he wants to do is play around and disturb other students...Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can help him?

2006-10-12 10:05:48 · 5 answers · asked by yah 1 in Family

ok...there is this boy...lets call him Jeff. So Jeff is a jokster but he is kind. He is 1 year older. He is best friends with your older sister and has a crush on you. So he asks you out over passing notes. You shrug and are unsure...At gym, he attempts again but through friends. Your friend runs and tells him, yes I do. I was unsure and nervous because i didnt get to make up my mind. so he says no because he thinks my friends convinced me! But I never got a word in. Then everyone comes over and starts laughing and say it is a joke. It could of worked out nosy people got in the middle of it and messed it up completely...now i am the laughing stock of the whole school what can i do???

2006-10-12 10:05:06 · 14 answers · asked by Clara 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy that i like and i was always flirting with him and stuff but then just earlier today i found out that he knows i like him. but now hes going out with someone else. but i'm sure they will break up after just a few days this girl can't stay in one relationship for more than a week!!! so what do i do? do i talk to him or do i stay away from him since he has a girlfriend?
please don't be mean to me i really need advice!
thank you so much! 10 points to best answer!

2006-10-12 10:04:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has there ever been an instance during your relationship that has made you stop and think... "could my boyfriend or girlfriend be into their same sex??"

2006-10-12 10:04:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend was hurt in past.
1. her 2 ex's cheated on on her!!!
2.her last partner left her in 4k dept!!!
3. she has a 5 year old son with a guy who dont give a S**T about any of them.
4. the same ex tryed to kill her not so long ago when she refuse to give him another chance.

thanks to these w**KERs she finds it really hard to trust other guys.
i know she loves me but at mo she finds it hard to trust me. she wants to trust me but just cant at mo.
she is such a great woman and i dont understand why these guys did this to her. how she got though this i never know but she has.
i love her i really do. she 29 im 21. we not living together yet cos of the trust thing.I known her for about a year but been going out for about 3 months.
she calls me the rock cos i stood by her when other people have not.
whats the best thing i should do to help her forget her troubled past??
has anyone been or going tho a similer thing?? could u give me any help?
i just want her to be happy!!

2006-10-12 10:04:18 · 19 answers · asked by alan h 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years. Our anniversary is October 20. What should we do on our anniversary. I want something really special. We have 3y/o twin daughters, but my parents said that they would take them for the weekend. We live near Lake George,NY, so they may take them up there for a couple of nights. What should we do on our anniversary. I need something really good. My husband and I love each other very much. We love making love. We are also trying to concieve. Please give me some stuff that you may have done on your anniversary. Thank You!!!!!
Also, can you tell me were to purchase the stuff that you may tell me.

2006-10-12 10:03:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I are not yet divorced and both of us would like to try our relationship again. He lives back home, with my family and friends. He knows everything about this current relationship of mine & still wants to try again. My family wants me home.

The only catch is I have the prospect of a new life here, and I do have a good job. I cannot afford to live out here by myself however.

2006-10-12 10:03:44 · 2 answers · asked by NowayJose 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i really dont mean to. anyway heres my story.

me and my friend always go to friday night football games together. she is real quit. and shy not outgoing at all. and when im at the game she gets mad at me cause i tyalk to everybody.
i do not mean to but i kinda ignore her. i hate myself cause she thinkls i perposly ignore her.


whats your advice?

2006-10-12 10:03:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am in love with this man who I feel loves me but their is another woman that cakes him, takes care of him, and gives him what he wants. He said the reason that he goes to her is so he won't have to ask me that there is no LOVE involved, he loves me. I think that maybe somewhat true he has my name tatooed on his arm, how do I get past this?

2006-10-12 10:02:28 · 4 answers · asked by gagirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 10:02:20 · 8 answers · asked by batejw69 1 in Singles & Dating