why did my friend say i should make the first move to my crush?

Answer 1

its the 20th century.
or is it the 21st?
oh well. anyway.
if women want something, they should go for it, not wait around for that kid to finally come around, cause by then you might have given up hope on him and moved on.
you want something, you gotta get it yourself.

Answer 2

Perhaps they just want to encourage you to at least take a chance on a relationship instead of waiting so long that your opportunity passes forever. You may be embarrassed if you don't get the response you want, but without trying you only have regret.

Answer 3

Maybe she heard that a girl that alot of boys like like your crush too.
And if you dont make a move now,she will.

Just try to not be shy and ask him out already,and if he says no,which he wont,it doesnt matter.
Hes just a boy.
And you can still like him anyway.
As long as your still happy.

And i guess some boys dont like girls that dont like them back.
And he may like you now,but what if he never knows and gets used to it?

Answer 4

cause if your feeling someone then what is wrong with letting that person know don't be shy go for it what do you have to lose

Answer 5

BECAUSE BOYS TEND 2 BE THE MORE QUIET PARTNER.. IF U WANNA GO WIT A BOY TELL HIM HE MIGHT LIKE U WHO NO'S???????

Answer 6

because until you don't..... your crush wouldnt know that you have a crush on them!!

Answer 7

Becuase they want to see you happy

Answer 8

maybe she knows he is too shy

Answer 9

I dont know you tell me.