how can i get him back for treating me this way, so i can get it across to him that it really hurt me? talking doesnt work......HELP
2006-10-12 10:10:43 · 9 answers · asked by Brierley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you so concerned about getting him back for what he did?
Two wrongs don't make it right and he's not even worth the effort. Someone who leads you on for nothing but dissapoint and who doesn't care about you doesn't deserve the time, attention, or effort to think of a plan of getting him back.
Be the bigger and better person and just move on. One day he'll recognize his mistake and it'll be too little too late.
2006-10-12 10:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just went through this..you could talk your head off, he won't get it, you could do horrible things to him but he still won't get it and it only takes power away from you as a woman, living well is the best revenge. Do something nice for yourself, get with your girls, bash him, cry with them, but don't do anything to him, you don't have to and it's not worth it. So you made a mistake, we all do, learn from it.
2006-10-12 10:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the long run getting him back won't really help either. write him a letter and tell him honestly how he hurt you. it may not bother him immediately....but over time it will eat at him. you will be "getting him back" by moving on with out him. you are only serving to inflate his ego more by dwelling on it.
2006-10-12 10:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no other way to say it, but you been had. When a guy
sounds to, to nice, then he's just looking for a peace of ***.
There's a deference between a Gentle men and a Mother
F**ker.
2006-10-12 10:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
clearly you are hurt but revenge won't do any thing for you. just move on. everyone gets hurt a few times!
2006-10-12 10:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Julie A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't lead you on...YOU ALLOWED yourself to be lead. Don't blame others for your blindness.
Other than that, grow up, get over it and move on with your life.
2006-10-12 10:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him that you dont care. that he didnt hurt you at all. trust me this will work. if you see him smile show him youre not scared of him or people like him.
2006-10-12 10:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go..
Move on with your life..
2006-10-12 10:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
treat his worse than what he treated you
2006-10-12 10:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Blacky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋