theres this guy that i like and i was always flirting with him and stuff but then just earlier today i found out that he knows i like him. but now hes going out with someone else. but i'm sure they will break up after just a few days this girl can't stay in one relationship for more than a week!!! so what do i do? do i talk to him or do i stay away from him since he has a girlfriend?
please don't be mean to me i really need advice!
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2006-10-12 10:04:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, your best bet is to lay low until him and the girl breakup.
Right now, he's in a relationship and you wouldn't want to try to be with him when he's with another girl because that's just wrong.
Since this girl can't keep a man, you have nothing to worry about. After they break up in a week or so, make your move. Tell him exactly how you feel upfront, not him hearing it from other people.
I'm sure that he'll be willing to give it a try and hopefully the two of you will hit it off.
2006-10-12 10:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would say, keep talking to him, keep up a "friends" type relationship, you sound sure about the breakup, so make sure you still keep things friendly, without pressing, and wait. When they break up, and he's possibly upset, he looks around and boom, there you are, a good friend. Perfect opportunity. Also, if he IS upset, don't pounce right away, let him come to you. If he doesn't show much interest a little while after the breakup in you, then you can start to push it. Best of luck!
2006-10-12 17:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by renny08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the both of you like each other it just happened to be that he is now with someone else..Don't back away or stop talking to him just cause he has a girl so What? If you are sure that this girl wont last don't worry about it just continue what you are doing He already knows you like him just don't make it too obvious play the game and have fun!!!
2006-10-12 17:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by yah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're sure they'll break up in a few days, you needn't do anything. Be cool and stay away.
I wonder why, if he knew you liked him and has been flirting with you, he chose someone else and not you to go out with. Are ya sure you're going to want him after he's dumped by this other girl?
2006-10-12 17:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why change how you act around him? Just keep being yourself, esp if he was with this other girl while still being chatty and flirty with you. It doesn't sound like you're out to split them up (although I'm sure you'd prefer him to be single) so why stay away. He might think you've lost interest.
He knows you like him, the rest is down to him.
Good Luck. x
2006-10-12 17:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go out of your way to see/speak to him but dont necessarily stay away from him deliberately either - just go about ur business as you normally would. Above all DO NOT show him that ure jealous.
And oh, be careful and make sure he's not a player.
2006-10-12 17:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by pennines123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away like you said it will only be a few days.
2006-10-12 17:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by Got2seeit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Then you at least know what he is feeling and what you are feeling too. See what you do or don't have if you care enough to risk asking. Otherwise then don't. If you are honest and communicating with no deception, he probably would too.
2006-10-12 17:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋