I am in love with this man who I feel loves me but their is another woman that cakes him, takes care of him, and gives him what he wants. He said the reason that he goes to her is so he won't have to ask me that there is no LOVE involved, he loves me. I think that maybe somewhat true he has my name tatooed on his arm, how do I get past this?
2006-10-12 10:02:28 · 4 answers · asked by gagirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off if this is truly love that you guys have for each other you have got to be the one to step to the plate and cater to his needs do what she is doing and then some. Show him that you are just as capable to return the favor. If he really does love you then he will be there with you and he will let ole' girl go. Honey there is no way to get past what your heart feels you got to let nature run its course. You know that women tend to fall far more for men then they do us so it is up to you weather to try and hold on to the love you feel you guys have or let go and find someone who is gonna be there for you and only you.
2006-10-12 15:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you are together, it is your job to to take care of him and do things for him (and vice Versa) so his excuse that he doesn't want to ask you is ridiculous.
He's having his cake and eating it too and all the while you're allowing him to do so.
If he loved you, he wouldn't be in the arms of another woman. A tattoo doesn't mean love or commitment, it's a permanent stamp.
You need to leave this man because he's not being fair. He's being with two woman and you're acting so naive to believe what he's saying.
2006-10-12 10:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok heres the skinny, just as an example. I am married and I love my wife but like most guys I would love to be with another women. I could probably care about the other women too but I am safe with my wife and I like the security of always having her around.
2006-10-12 10:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by Matthew P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts, but you really need to tell yourself that you deserve better and he isn't even close to being what you need if you're in pain. If someone loves you... they won't hurt you. Think to yourself what is the type of man you want to spend the rest of your life with and write the qualities down. Then write all of the things your boyfriend does that hurts you. Do you really think that you can put up with that the whole time you're together. Don't settle for less than you want or deserve to have in your life. I promise... time does heal all wounds. Good Luck!
2006-10-12 10:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by Marla C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋