Okay my husband is 36 and I am 26. He always starts the arguments and yes I end up getting mad and saying something that I dont mean and he does the same and then he would leave for the whole day not telling me what he is doing. Then when he comes back home he will close hiself in his office and ingnore me and his two month old daughter. Then when I want to talk to him why is is so mad and/or upset he don't want to talk about it. Even though he has been avoiding the topic all day. I have to keep on talking to him to tell me why. When he acts like this it cuts like a knife any suggestions?
2006-10-12 10:07:24 · 11 answers · asked by chrissy20us 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just a suggestion but when he starts insulting you, don't return the remarks and just maybe in time he will stop will the cutting remarks. Also, I know from experience that our spouse can make us more mad than any other person on the face of the Earth but please watch the mean things that you say because they don't forget. They store it away and use it against us later someway or somehow. Just a few suggestions
2006-10-12 10:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by ?? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well to me it looks like home boy is picking the fight to have the reason to stay away, and second of all i would pay more attention on what he is doing? where dose he go for the day or so? and you are ten years younger then him don't waste your prime with a Doo Doo even though you have a baby, youth is still on your side
2006-10-12 10:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by PAULINA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone does well with expressing themselves....maybe you should try and tone it down a little when it comes to the arguments....Give him some space..allow him to come to you if its not working at this current state why not try a different route....what do you have to lose......
2006-10-12 10:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he needs space to cool off then back off and leave him alone. Maybe in the future shut your pie hole instead of being so hurtful to him. It takes two to tango baby.
2006-10-12 10:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by Got2seeit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as i hate saying this. it sounds like he needs some space to cool off. it isn't right that he is ignoring your feelings but if he tends to open up later if you let him alone. give it a go.
2006-10-12 10:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself: Does the pain outweigh the pleasure?
2006-10-12 10:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by Saffernellie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He´s bored from you. He is also tired from your nagging. He is not sure he made the correct decision by marrying you.
2006-10-12 17:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by ricaca123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is find out what is wrong with him cause there is i know that it hurts but you need to put him on lock when he ready to be your friend then you eg him try it and see what happends
2006-10-12 10:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by macarthurproperties 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably was raised to not deal with his feelings
2006-10-12 10:09:44 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's banging another broad, or he's pissed that he has to be with you instead of banging some random young chick!
2006-10-12 10:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋