What do you do when your boyfriend kisses his brother's girlfriend and you really want to get back at him. This is going around I don't know if its truth or not!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-12 10:07:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, FIND OUT IF IT IS TRUE!! Common sense, dear. When you confront him on the situation, it's best to be calm about it and not immediately jump into a defensive position. Yelling at him right off about a possible rumor will get you nowhere, and left with no answers. Second, be a grown-up; revenge is childish. You may feel the need to "get back" at him, but don't you think that would do more harm than good? If you value the relationship, you'll find an adult way to handle the situation.
2006-10-12 10:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by shoebitches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, ask him if it's true or not. If you don't know for sure, wait until you have some evidence before getting back at him. Second, if it is true, just dump him. He's not a guy you need around anyway if he'd do that to his own brother.
2006-10-12 10:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather then "getting back" at him, be the bigger person. It might just be a rumor but if you think he is capable of it (and has shown signs of feelings for her) then leave him be. Explain to him that you don't want to be with a cheater and that you're dissapointed that he did such a thing to you. Then, leave it at that. You don't have to get back at him, that's just childish. Be the better person and prove that you don't need him.
You were living and breathing before him and you'll be living and breathing after him.
2006-10-12 10:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out the truth first and if it's true talk to him and tell him that it realy hurt you and that you need to be sure that he can be true to you, not something to get back at him because that is not mature and will get you in trouble if he really did not do anything.
2006-10-12 10:09:29 · answer #4 · answered by slyshewolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything, you should talk to him, find out if its true. Talk to the girl, and then trust your gut.
If he did do it, the best way to get back at him is to dump him. Dont go seeking revenge, just get rid of him. If he's that low, you dont know him. I've had alot of expireince lately with that sort of thing. Just dump him girl
2006-10-12 10:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by workn2live22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should ask him about it and if it is true, revenge is not good so u should dump him.Because if he does it once he probably will do it again. If he can betray his brother it would be easy for him to betray you.
2006-10-12 10:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to tell him what you heard and then ask if it is true or not.And if it is you need to let his brother know and then break up with him.
2006-10-12 10:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by k_5961 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first figure out if its true or not
if it is kiss his brother
2006-10-12 10:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww ur boyfriend kisses his brothers gurl i would slap him and then i hope his brother slap him and then ill slap her and i hope his brother slap her too(im not violent lol)
2006-10-12 10:12:06 · answer #9 · answered by inocent me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him about it, and if he did do it tell his brother and break up with him.
2006-10-12 10:13:31 · answer #10 · answered by lelecw14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋