Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

I had posted a question a while back about my fiance wanting me to have a one nighter with her friend and I thank everyone that responded to that question. I told her no.... Well, she is really pressuring for me to do this before we get married and we are supposed to get married this weekend. I have a very strong feeling that she has or is getting some on the side until we say "I Do". She really made me suspicious when she said, if you just do it once and it is before we get married, it is not cheating. Well, when it comes to my girlfriend/fiance/wife, I do not share and want no part of a cheating fiance. So since I think she has, but have no realy proof, do I call it off, delay the wedding or just bail all together. I know that if she was to confess after we got married, it would be a quick divorce, because I can not stomach a liar or cheater. Yes, I have asked her, we have talked, but I am not convinced I am getting the truth...Thoughts?

2006-10-12 09:39:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are both married, but she says she wants to have a 1 off sex session with me and as wanted to for years, should i, or should i say no?

2006-10-12 09:39:34 · 107 answers · asked by david.cawood@btinternet.com 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My younger (only by one year) brother is giving me away at my wedding. So at the reception I want to have a slow dance with him. Any suggestions on any brother/sister songs, or anything to tell him how much he means to me. We are really close so he won't get grossed out by a slow dance with his sister!!

2006-10-12 09:39:20 · 12 answers · asked by Heather 2 in Weddings

2006-10-12 09:39:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is addicted and he is hurting his job and me in the process. When I try to calmly discuss it with him he blames it on me. I guess I am not enough for him.

2006-10-12 09:39:01 · 2 answers · asked by ladamato 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If they do, wouldn't there be lots masturbating since there are so many smurfs and only one smurfette?

2006-10-12 09:37:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so here's the deal: I'm not much of a drinker, it's never really appealed to me, so I never did it in high school. Now I'm in university and it's pretty much the norm. Last weekend I tried drinking with my friends, and it didn't go well, lol. Alcohol makes my head and stomach hurt, everything spins, and I get reallllly tired. I'm extremely shy, and I didn't find that it helped me "loosen up" any like people said it would. Is this normal?? I'm 19, and I'm in my first year of university. I know most people have been trashed by this point in their life, but I haven't... so please don't be mean! (Drinking age is 18 here in Montreal, by the way). We're all going out again tonight. If I don't want to drink alcohol, is it okay just to ask a bartender for water or something?
N.B. I only posted in the Singles and Dating section because I have a feeling more people read this than any other category.

2006-10-12 09:37:45 · 18 answers · asked by deepwaters05 3 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy hes so cute and he seems like he kinda likes me to.sould i tell him i like he or what? plzzzzzzzz help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-12 09:36:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I Have been with my man for 7 months and on the 6th month i thought he was cheating but i couldnt belive myself. Then thats when i found out i saw my sister and my man. So then i stopped talkin to her should i talk to her?

2006-10-12 09:36:48 · 20 answers · asked by ty_wanted@yahoo.com 1 in Family

My Husband and I have been separated for a little over a year. He lives three hours away but comes and visits at least every other weekend to see me and our children. We have been talking about getting back together but one thing is really bothering me. He knows just about everything that is going on in my house. He knows how much money I make and basically where it goes but when I inquire as to where all his money is spent he basically thinks its none of my business. I am a very inquisitive person by nature and he says I just want to know everything and am not satisfied if I can't find out. I think I have a right to know what he is spending his money on especially since he says he is saving a lot so he can move back home. I have my doubts about how much he has saved and think he just doesn't want me to know he is blowing a lot on money on frivolous things!

2006-10-12 09:35:10 · 20 answers · asked by lorizundel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-12 09:35:09 · 21 answers · asked by mdsp35 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you chose the money you must give up that person forever and if you chose the person likewise you may never have a million...even if you earn it,lol

2006-10-12 09:34:55 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm having trouble not crying. i just want to let my feelings out so they're gon. it's just not coming.

2006-10-12 09:34:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why don't women love the men that treat their woman with love and respect?
I see it all the time. I do not understand it.

2006-10-12 09:34:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so that they could enjoy a lot

2006-10-12 09:34:13 · 4 answers · asked by ny k 2 in Family

I'm from japan and I'm looking for a black girlfriend.I've always been attracted to them they're confident,strong-willed,and beautiful.If anyone out there is interested please respond and i will contact you.

2006-10-12 09:33:26 · 8 answers · asked by shiro yoshikomaru 1 in Singles & Dating

like that i'm pregnant and other stuff u don't wanna know! yeah i'm in highschool.

2006-10-12 09:33:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husban and i have been 2 gether for 3-4 years we have 3 kids when i had my last one in september he was there until i had him then he went home. said he would be back never was i begged him to stay with me but he refused to. when i got home my house was trashed. beer cans all over and he dont drink bud lite he said it was a friend of his that lived down the road when went to the bed room he had blankets over the windows. He said that the people who lived next door had all the lights on and he could not sleep. i found out from the neighbor that he had some people over not just guys there was girls to. he is 21 and there was underage girls at my house well known s**** thats not the first time i have thought he has cheated on me i was in and out of the hospital beeing preg with complications. baby was born earlyour relation ship started out he was with someone then he cheated on her with me. I really need ur help so please some one help me i dont know is attitude has changed so much.

2006-10-12 09:32:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was friends with someone who I know has in the last couple of years served in the navy. I have tried googling them to no avail. Any suggestions?

2006-10-12 09:31:33 · 12 answers · asked by Kelly-marie J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i tried most thing and nothing seems to work. eg no drink before bed.you name i tried it i need help

2006-10-12 09:31:00 · 29 answers · asked by D B 1 in Family

Wives, if you discovered that your husband has had/is having sex with other men would you leave him or just sit back and accept it?

2006-10-12 09:30:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-12 09:30:37 · 8 answers · asked by Rach 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 09:30:26 · 16 answers · asked by narziso23 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend tried to kill himself. He's in the hospital. Just found out now. I want to go see him but under circumstances can't. ( he and I are in culinary school) In school everyone was whispering and all that crap. then I heard one of our school mate talking to another about him ( sucide friend ) She was saying that he is selfish, and was a cry for help or something like that. How can they say that. He's depressed and he almost died and all they can talk about was that he is a psycho and that I should stay away from him for he can hurt me. Why the **** do they have to gossip and all that crap. I found out this morning, but don't know anything. He's my friend. I hate them

2006-10-12 09:29:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a 8 year old brother and a 11 year old sister how do treat them better and take care of each other because we fight every day over something dumb

2006-10-12 09:28:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 26 at the end of the year and my man is 36, we have been together for a few years now and we have been talking about starting a family. he's says wait until he has a bit of money etc behind him which i can fully understand but his age is a concern for me. Can men really be "too old" to start a family? Help!!

2006-10-12 09:28:47 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 09:28:11 · 50 answers · asked by lisa k 2 in Family

together and our marriege date its set now, but i dont know why i just dont have strong feelings for him any more and i dont know i feel the same way from his side. You thinks is it a long distance or is it my fear that he is going to leave me again, like he is been changing his mind a lot. But even thoug we are together I dont get his strong feelings toward me. He dont talk to much about our wedding prepatrations only he does talk when I talk about it. But when every time i try to leave him he stops me to. I dont know what to do. I really need help i cant go through with sad emotions any more.

2006-10-12 09:28:06 · 6 answers · asked by Alisha 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Some people bore me alot.Specially those who try hard.. Why is that??

2006-10-12 09:28:05 · 3 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Be Honest Ladies;

What is the single most important thing you look for when you're searching for a man to spend your time with?

2006-10-12 09:27:45 · 11 answers · asked by Bad Example 1 in Other - Family & Relationships