Wives, if you discovered that your husband has had/is having sex with other men would you leave him or just sit back and accept it?
2006-10-12 09:30:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Great responses so far but REALLY think about it...it's very easy to say that you'd kick him to the curb now but would you in fact be able to do it knowing very well that he's your life and you have kids.
The reason I added this is because there are alot of women who would in fact turn a blind eye to it.
2006-10-12 09:52:23 · update #1
Also, has there ever been an instance during your marriage that has made you stop and think... "could my husband be into guys??"
2006-10-12 09:54:47 · update #2
I don't have a husband; but if I did and found out that he was cheating, I would leave his dumb a.s.s. Why be involved with someone who clearly doesn't respect you. Note: everyone can make a huge mistake; but to continue or repeat; is grounds for bye-bye!
2006-10-12 09:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once trust is lost there is no marriage left, one might in time forgive, but it's something you can never forget. doesn't matter if it's being done with a man or a woman it's still cheating, and it's still a betrayal of trust. you give your love to someone, you trust that person with your life, and it's pretty hard to get over cheating. i would have to say the easiest way is just to get a divorce and move on with life, because it's basically just too hard to get the marriage back to where you thought it was before you found out.
2006-10-12 16:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husbands Cheating?
2014-12-12 21:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's like this........
AIDS is too real to be playing around. If my husband was cheating on me period....he would have to go. The thing is that no matter if he is cheating with a man or a woman, the threat of AIDS is still present.
2006-10-12 09:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by Neea_Gastino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if he is having sex with a man or a woman. If I find out that my husband is cheating he is out the door. I don't share my husband with anyone for any reason.
2006-10-12 09:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realistically one is not able to accept something that might weigh heavy on one's mental or physical well being.
Thus, any kind of infidelity is not conducive to a lasting relationship. It would need to be resolved. In my opinion, there would be no accepting it.
2006-10-12 09:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get a divorce. Not only is he being unfaithful with someone. But if he is cheating on me with another man, then it is because he is attracted to men. Why would I stay with a person whom is not completely satisfied with me.
2006-10-12 09:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by Amy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodbye without a second thought! YUK!
then straight to the Sexual Health Clinic!
then back to kick him in the nuts!
2006-10-12 09:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by puffy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-06-21 09:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he would be out but i wouldnt be as hurt as if he went with another woman i cant compete against another man but he would be out for not being honest and at the end of the day it is still cheating
2006-10-12 09:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by esharvinhobbs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋