my husban and i have been 2 gether for 3-4 years we have 3 kids when i had my last one in september he was there until i had him then he went home. said he would be back never was i begged him to stay with me but he refused to. when i got home my house was trashed. beer cans all over and he dont drink bud lite he said it was a friend of his that lived down the road when went to the bed room he had blankets over the windows. He said that the people who lived next door had all the lights on and he could not sleep. i found out from the neighbor that he had some people over not just guys there was girls to. he is 21 and there was underage girls at my house well known s**** thats not the first time i have thought he has cheated on me i was in and out of the hospital beeing preg with complications. baby was born earlyour relation ship started out he was with someone then he cheated on her with me. I really need ur help so please some one help me i dont know is attitude has changed so much.
2006-10-12 09:32:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Definately,Something is up.Bad track record,big attitude change.I'd say,just move on,but you've gotta do what feels right to you.Take a step back,pretend to be someone else,look at your situation,and then tell yourself what you think.
2006-10-12 09:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is cheating. And i think you already no that, you are just really looking for an excuse that will alter you from thinking that. You are holding onto him because you have kids together. Sweetheart believe me just because you have kids with a man doesn't mean you're stuck with them. And any man that can disrepect you by not staying with you in the hospital obviously had more important things to do like having wild sex with that slut! I know that may hurt but thats what you need to hear. And if he's not trying to be a good father trust me there are plenty of men who would love to play daddy. He thinks he "got you" thats why he can tell you all these lies and he knows you're not going anywhere so prove him worng. Cause trust me with him still being young he's going to keep on doin it.
2006-10-12 09:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats pretty bad just the simple fact of you having given birth to his child and he leaves just like that, thats not good. He must have really been into his nasty little game that he didnt care about you or his son that just tells you that you cannot count on him for @#$%!!! You should show him the door, he has more to lose than you hes a total jerk, if you saw what you had to see with your own eyes and you stay youre dumb!!!
2006-10-12 09:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by Juliet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl.....you are soooooooo young to have to be dealing with that kind of crap! Life has a lot more to offer then what your worried about. Don't let this be your future for the rest of your life. Grab life by the horns and hang on! Good -Luck to you!!!
2006-10-12 09:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by lostonehere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety its called birth control and its easy to get. If he cheated with you while in a relationship why in the world did you believe he wouldn't cheat on you?
2006-10-12 09:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Three kids at 21? DeeZam!
2006-10-12 09:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by Tonya L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to confront him with his lies.... remember you can not just think about yourself, you have children to consider and why bring them up in an unhappy home!! tell him what you know, if he is defensive and agro you hit the nail on the head.
2006-10-12 09:38:07 · answer #7 · answered by da gold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Acquire a bit of common sense and leave this miserable situation of yours.
Your energy should be wasted on your kids, not on a loser who apparently doesn't give a crap about you.
2006-10-12 12:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't take any of the advice offered here, please at least take this advice:
PLEASE STOP HAVING BABIES!
What good is it doing having 3 kids with this jerk? He is an uncaring jerk. Does he deserve your love? Doesn't sound like he does. You can do better and so can your kids.
2006-10-12 09:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes he is a cheater get out while you can and dont let things get worse you have to think what is best for you and your kids
2006-10-12 09:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋