2006-10-12 09:35:09 · 21 answers · asked by mdsp35 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh boy, thats tough. im sorry, if your not happy with your husband, then leave. if you are happy with your husband, then stay and forget that other man.....i dont know you or whats goping on in your life so i cant say much, im sure there are gonna be some mean people out there who will judge you...if you ever wanna vent you can talk to me.
2006-10-12 09:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a horrible situation. The main reason why you fell for this other is because you are not completely happy in your marriage. Sometimes we go into marriage thinking that just because you love each other everything is going to be perfect, and it's not. You will have problems and you will settle down and get comfortable with each other and stop trying as hard as when you first got together. When this other person came along, it's new and exiting and he is filling that need. However, sooner or latter you will fall back into the same routine. I really suggest to sit down and really think about it. Do You Still Love you husband? Even though everything is great with this other person, would it really work out in the long run? Your relationship is starting off on the wrong foot. Even though you want to go and not worry about anything, some times you can't be selfish. Think about what this would do to your husband. How would you feel after the fact. At the end of all of this, what ever you decided to do make sure you take the right steps. If you decide to leave your husband make sure you end it before you get into a serious relationship with this other person.
2006-10-12 10:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by Amy D 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You made vows to Love Honor and Cherish your husband til death do you part. You need to never see this man again. If you work with him, change jobs. If you need to move, do it. You need to do what ever you can to avoid this man.
I don't know if you should tell you husband this, but either way you need to find a way to fall in love with your husband again. Go on a 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th honeymoon with him. Join a softball team together. Read a book together that requires descution at the read of each chapter. I recommend this book to every woman, but especially to you. Please read the "Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands." I believe that this book may help prevent you from making the biggest mistake of your life.
2006-10-12 09:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. That's not a question. It's a statement.
2. Only a glutton for punishment would post it.
3. There is no way to provide an answer.
2006-10-12 10:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by Erad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a sad fact that very few people can marry their truest, deepest, love. Many people carry a secret torch with them. It's not your fault to love someone, it just happens and sometimes it doesn't come back your way. Love can still happen afterwards, though. I love my wife and can say she is my soul mate, but not with the intensity and depth that i had for another before who didn't reciprocate...time says that my wife is the one for me, my soulmate, luckily.
2006-10-12 09:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to choose who you want the most. If you want to stay with your husband you have to give up the other man. Honor the vows you took and be true to him.
If you want the other man then divorce your husband. Don't try to keep both of them or you will lose in the end.
2006-10-12 09:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a good thing.....here's what u do...you weigh out the reasons why you love them both...whomever has the most thats the one you choose
But you're cheating that is a definite no-no
2006-10-12 09:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce a move on...sounds cruel but its unfair to remain tied up to someone you no longer love and at the same time cheat on him...
2006-10-12 09:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to think about what you really want. Choose what will make you happiest. Stay true to yourself and go with you heart.
Chris
2006-10-12 09:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by Chris! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have to think in this case for example if the man that you married is You how do you feel if you know that your husband loves other one what are you goinig to do ???????????????????
2006-10-12 09:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by nansy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋