together and our marriege date its set now, but i dont know why i just dont have strong feelings for him any more and i dont know i feel the same way from his side. You thinks is it a long distance or is it my fear that he is going to leave me again, like he is been changing his mind a lot. But even thoug we are together I dont get his strong feelings toward me. He dont talk to much about our wedding prepatrations only he does talk when I talk about it. But when every time i try to leave him he stops me to. I dont know what to do. I really need help i cant go through with sad emotions any more.
2006-10-12 09:28:06 · 6 answers · asked by Alisha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dont git married till you can work these things out....may be it not meant to be with you two
2006-10-12 09:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by good guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage, remember, is meant to for life. If you are not fully satisfied, confident or happy in your relationship now, getting married won't change that.
You need to be very honest with yourself and think about what you want and how you feel. If you don't truly want to be with this individual, then break it off. If you want to be with him, but feel there are trust issues, be honest and discuss it with him. Enter into counseling or look into self help information.
Also, talk to him and find out what's going on. He may be having the same doubts you are, but is too afraid to say. Many people stay in relationships simply because they're make the "commitment" or have been together for "so long". Don't make that mistake if you aren't truly happy.
2006-10-12 17:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sativa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't marry someone you don't have strong feelings for. In my experience you should never get back with a guy you already dated anyways. It didn't work out the first time more tries won't make it better. You need to leave him. You will end up regretting marrying him. Marriage should only be entered into if both people are completely in love and you don't sound in love to me.
2006-10-12 16:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by pyro187 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some thing is defiantly wrong, go to counselling or some thing marriage is supposed to be a life time commitment If you are having any doubts, you need to deal with them NOW
2006-10-12 16:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been in a very similar situation. Don't do it because you will regret it.
2006-10-12 16:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think twice b4 u get married ..else ur life wud become hell
2006-10-12 16:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋