Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

Right now my fiance and I are looking at having a 21 month engagement, do you think this is too long?

2006-10-12 09:15:50 · 36 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Weddings

okay last time i asked a question on this, you guys were right..

okay if im just friends with a guy.. but people are telling me that he might like me and i like him alot.. idk and my two best friends just found these guys and their in love with them.. and like they hold hands in the hall and im just like a thrid wheel.. so idk what to do about this guy cause i really like him.. but idk is there anyway besides being like heyy i like you.. is there anyother way to like hint it or something?? cause i want him to like me.. but i know i cant make him..

2006-10-12 09:15:45 · 9 answers · asked by ariel 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 09:15:36 · 4 answers · asked by The one and only 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 09:15:25 · 6 answers · asked by IKNOWNO 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

giving me oral? I want him to know that I like it. No B/S please, just straight up answers.

2006-10-12 09:15:21 · 5 answers · asked by Sheila 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 09:14:45 · 31 answers · asked by Triple H. 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 09:14:39 · 6 answers · asked by Bildo 2 in Singles & Dating

i really like the guy in my year at college, i've known him for 4 years and we get on really well. recently i've started to like him more than a friend. i think he maybe interested but i'm not completely sure and want some opinions.
he is quite shy but very open around me
we stand, sit, etc in the same positions
he does hold my eye contract longer than other people's
i've caught him looking at me, i looked at him and he looked away quickly then looked back
he doesn't seem to want to leave when we have nothing particual to do at college, he seems to just want to stay and talk to me for hours at a time
when we are sitting at a table he puts he's feet right next to mine
but he is really shy though and if he does like me in the same way how do i approach this??

2006-10-12 09:14:30 · 14 answers · asked by dublin sky 1 in Singles & Dating

We want to play some music at our kids christening but some people say no ( ie PARENTS ) we think its a great idea. So if you agree what should we play and if you don't agree WHY ?

2006-10-12 09:13:44 · 5 answers · asked by hatfieldnomi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 09:13:37 · 1 answers · asked by S M 1 in Family

I am really good friends with this girl. We get along great. However, lately I have started to have romantic feelings for her. I have no clue how to tell her and fear that I will ruin our friendship if I do. Any Suggestions???

2006-10-12 09:13:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband's friend is marrried to someone that my husband had sex with in high school. My hubby's friend had no idea that I knew what happenned. About a week after he found out that I knew what our significant others did long ago, he started flirting with me HEAVILY. He even proposed that we start a sexual relationship on the side. I'm having problems in my marriage and so is he, but I know this would be an unwise move to make. I am friendly with his wife and their 4 kids. I am uncomfortabke about this, but also strangely flattered. I'm scared to tell my husband and show him the emails his friend has sent me because he would go BALISTIC. Some advice PLEASE!!

2006-10-12 09:13:10 · 17 answers · asked by PRL8268 2 in Marriage & Divorce

currently work a full time job, but it interfers with my idea of what it taks to be a good mom. Plus, this job could take me away from my family for months at a time. I started this job before I had my daughter. Unfortunately, I don't have the option of just quiting...so, since my husband and I want more kids anyway, we've started TTC (Trying to conceive) so that I will be able to "quit" my job. It's kind of a weird situation, but please just accept that I really am in an odd situation.

It's going to be a struggle, but we'll have the support of our families while we make the transition and my husband will be able to work a job he'll actually like. Unfortunately, my job has been priority and he's kind of had to work around me. I like my job but, after almost 2 years of supporting the family, It's only fair to give my husband a chance to take over. He wants to.

I asked this in TTC, but I wanted to post it elsewhere to get a broader audience for more advice.

2006-10-12 09:12:44 · 3 answers · asked by Laura R 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is family such a pain in the butt? How many people out there have a happy, loving, and supportive family?

My family talks behind each others backs. I wish I could disown my family most the time they are evil.

2006-10-12 09:12:43 · 6 answers · asked by aimstir31 5 in Family

2006-10-12 09:12:29 · 19 answers · asked by jami p 2 in Singles & Dating

I heard from someone that in order to keep a steady relationship you must be able to keep a plant alive or an animal..... if this is so I suck because i was just informed at my work i am responsible for the plant in the window and it is dying as we speak..... Am I doomed for failure?

2006-10-12 09:12:22 · 22 answers · asked by LiL mAmMa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he always want it but i'm not always in the mood. well, i'm never really in the mood. i don't have the urge. I love him dearly and i'm not cheating and haven't ever cheated on him. i'm not seeing anybody else and i'm not interested in anybody else. i just don't feel like sex. he wants it every night.i use to give it to him every day but now i'm just never in the mood. when i do give in a do it it's good but i need help on what to do to get me in the mood. i don't want foreplay either because i still have to be in the mood. i'm not trying to make him run to another woman to get it so i need some help

2006-10-12 09:11:38 · 14 answers · asked by mzshake33 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So heres the deal. I really like my friend and i asked her out a year ago and she said no. I asked her 5 days after she got out of a serious relaitionship. we hang out even more since then. we go to movies, lunch, dinner, and ballgames alone. she gives me tight hugs and i kiss her on the cheek. the thing is i cant be her friend anymore. its too hard. i have to either be her boyfriend or cut off complete contact with her. this has become a serious problem in my life. my grades are suffering and i hinder mysefl from meeting other girls. so please choose one of 4 things i should do.

1. not call her ever again and just break off contact
2. ask her out again
3. try kissing her
4. call her and ask if her feelings about me have changed and if not say i cant be friends anymore

2006-10-12 09:11:26 · 10 answers · asked by greg J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 09:11:20 · 3 answers · asked by IKNOWNO 1 in Friends

Hey there......I am 27 yrs. old & live with my parents..stop laughing now. Anyways....I am engaged to a great man that I love and he lives 80 miles away. He asked me to relocate to be with him and I have asked him to relocate to be with me. Where he lives there aren't very many job opts. and I have been with the same company for 8 yrs now. I don't want to relocate cuz my mom is in very ill health & so is my granny. However, I part of me wants to move to be with him & start my new life. What should I do??

2006-10-12 09:11:16 · 10 answers · asked by misse2341 1 in Family

2006-10-12 09:11:15 · 8 answers · asked by P S 1 in Family

the reason there are so many torn apart relationships and missery in this world.lots of people complain about smokers, but, ive never seen a marriage broken up over it.lots of my family members were drunks and drug addicts, and most are dead, and the rest are miserable. its time for people to get off the stuff and be happy.and yes ther are those who want to be strung out and wasted just to make every ones life hell. so stay away from them so u dont end up in the house of pain with them

2006-10-12 09:10:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I went through my husbands recent & dialed calls on his cell phone. I also pay the bill so I'm privvy to all incoming & outgoing calls. I usually never look but I did this time and saw some woman named Diane in is address book. Needless to say, I called her. Am I wrong?

2006-10-12 09:10:42 · 15 answers · asked by Tonya L 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean i know most of you broads do the right thing and vote the way your man tells you to, but still we are going to have a few of the women who just arent smart enough to remember what their guy told them and then some of them are going to try to get revenge ya know for the sunday beatings

i think its just reckless having a broad go into a voting booth with no male present, what do you guys think?

2006-10-12 09:10:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I have a crush on a girl in school, but dont say anything, people still know. And every time so far, someone has said (x) lekes you, they were right. Today a girl next to me in class said i think (x) likes you, in a fairly certain tone. Thing is, this (x) is my best friend (I'm a guy shes a girl), so do you thing she is right? Can peers tell these things? Should I trust her?

2006-10-12 09:10:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who has a big family? If you do, would you change it to a smaller one? I know I would.

2006-10-12 09:10:33 · 10 answers · asked by aimstir31 5 in Family

Okay now this totally cute boy I like asked me out and now we are going out, but I am so nervous to make eye contact or even talk to him, what should I do

2006-10-12 09:10:31 · 3 answers · asked by brillantbrunette 2 in Singles & Dating

Can anyone give me some feedback on your personal experience with the Today Sponge? I know this form of birth control was taken off the market a while back but was recently re-introduced. I asked the question earlier in Women's health but only got one response.

2006-10-12 09:10:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is your spouse /soulmate from a different country? Where did you meet?
What do you think of these relationships?

2006-10-12 09:08:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have to kids that love my boyfriend and he cheatted on me once how do you learn to trust him again? What would you do

2006-10-12 09:08:49 · 23 answers · asked by Baby Mercedes 1 in Singles & Dating