he always want it but i'm not always in the mood. well, i'm never really in the mood. i don't have the urge. I love him dearly and i'm not cheating and haven't ever cheated on him. i'm not seeing anybody else and i'm not interested in anybody else. i just don't feel like sex. he wants it every night.i use to give it to him every day but now i'm just never in the mood. when i do give in a do it it's good but i need help on what to do to get me in the mood. i don't want foreplay either because i still have to be in the mood. i'm not trying to make him run to another woman to get it so i need some help
2006-10-12 09:11:38 · 14 answers · asked by mzshake33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to have a long talk with him. Everyone has a different sex drive. Now, just because you don't care for sex as often as he, doesn't mean you can't do something to satisfy him. Discuss this with your partner, and see what is agreeable with him. Sometimes, they just need that little extra, if you know what I mean. Both of you must be comfortable, I just know, if I was in the mood, and my partner was not, hopefully he would help me out, a little.
2006-10-12 09:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If yu are on anti-depressants, depressed or anxious - that can be the leading cause for this feeling.. so once u solve that u have solved ur issue..
if this is not the case - u need to do something out of the ordinary.. like go away for a night or two.. drink a lil.. candles the works.. trying something new always helps..
This might sound funny but you can research certain foods like spicy foods that can heat up ur body and get u in the mood. - the natural way
2006-10-12 09:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by MIMSTRIK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's tough. you could try getting in the mood before he gets home by treating yourself to sexy bath oils, lingerie, candles, or whatever you want at the store. Make a point to leave the TV off for the night and have your favorite soft music playing lowly while you burn candles. When he walks in he will instantly feel the mood, and maybe this will get you in the mood. Go from there. hope this helps
2006-10-12 09:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by wudbiser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your own "foreplay" with some of the newer sex toys.
Check out the article here for a place to go for good advice on the whole subject:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/14061667/
Actually I see someone else also gave this advice earlier, but that's all the more reason to take it seriously.
2006-10-12 09:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of sex is a huge reason most men cheat. Be very careful. Women think men cheat because they are in love with someone else. WRONG. They just want their human needs fulfilled. It doesnt mean he loves you less, just that hes sick of the excuses and needs to get laid. Men are just wired different than women.
2006-10-12 09:27:50 · answer #5 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not marry this man, you do not love him. Having it every night, I can understand, most women are not in the mood every night, otherwise you feel like a prostitute. I just feel like there is not a strong enough feeling here, and you are in denial. You are your best friend, tell your best friend, to cut and run. Get someone you are madly in love with, you miss him when you are away, you love to look into his eyes, you are mushy when he touches you, you feel like you could never be away from him. Do you feel this way, no.... accept it.
2006-10-12 09:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by shardf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
attempt some place enjoying. purchase some perfect costumes. you understand, naughty college female, instructor, cheerleader, stewardess. Then act out the area, such as you're his cheerleader female pal and he's the captian of the soccer team or in spite of. then you definately be the only to start intercourse. Like pretend such as you 2 have not performed it yet and he would not understand the thank you to ideas-set you for it, so that is all on your palms. so which you are the 1st one to kiss him, then you definately're the guy who has to undress him, then he watches on the same time as you slowly undress your self, after which you place him and you climb on actual or in spite of. Make him in simple terms lay lower back and take in spite of you agree directly to do to him. this ought to excite him. If no longer, then i do no longer understand. reliable success.
2016-10-19 07:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it just got boring for you thats all,
you shouldnt have to force yourself into it either.
Maybe its something he's doing wrong
or maybe its just time to move on.
Figure it out because if hes not getting what he wants at home
then the chances of him looking elsewhere for it are very high.
2006-10-12 09:15:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ya see... you really shouldnt be doin that stuff until your married! just say no! dont do it! never say die! never do it! abstinence is the key! think abstinence! dont even hold hands it will only tempt you! Just dont do it! Dont do it EVER! EVER&EVER&EVER! ...........plus the way i see it, if you've already done it so many times, and you're bored of it, why would you want to have more ideas if it only bores you! okay well i hope i was of some assistance! see ya
2006-10-12 09:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by beth_mutchler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is this book. The Big O. The two of you should read it together. I did with My guy. It's pretty cool. Just don't be shy about it. Best of Luck.
2006-10-12 09:15:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋