Hey there......I am 27 yrs. old & live with my parents..stop laughing now. Anyways....I am engaged to a great man that I love and he lives 80 miles away. He asked me to relocate to be with him and I have asked him to relocate to be with me. Where he lives there aren't very many job opts. and I have been with the same company for 8 yrs now. I don't want to relocate cuz my mom is in very ill health & so is my granny. However, I part of me wants to move to be with him & start my new life. What should I do??
2006-10-12 09:11:16 · 10 answers · asked by misse2341 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm not laughing pet, I'm 50 and still live with my parents, 87 & 90. Its down to you ? sounds like there will be regrets whichever you decide. Maybe wait a little longer........
2006-10-12 09:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 05:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are marrying this man and he is going to provide you with a home and take care of you, move. If you have to work and make good money, then there could be a problem....
Once you are married your husband and family will take precedence over your mom and granny....
Personally I would go be with the man I love and never look back....
2006-10-12 09:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all its just opinions here and obviously no-one can tell you what to do. Your fiance told you to move with him and you didn't! I wouldn't have either. Family is so much more important and as long as your family needs you you should be there for them. Now as for the boyfriend if he can't compromise and move halfway between where he is now and where you are now than he is not a keeper.
Talk to mom.
2006-10-12 09:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by jeezmeneti66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you love your family but what would make YOU happy? You are very young and will start having kids of your own soon but you wont be able to if you don't have a man to get you pregnant. I know that sounds odd but your Mom & Granny have lived their lives, you have to live yours as well.
Good luck to you.
2006-10-12 09:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by Tonya L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your family needs you. and you need to be where you can find work and take care of momma/grandma. if they are in ill health, unfortunately, there will be time enough to start a new life later on. i think at this point, he needs to understand that, and move to be closer to where you need to be. agree that later on, you will reconsider where to live, if that is something you both want.
good luck
2006-10-12 09:15:07 · answer #6 · answered by leavemealonestalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out but within proximity to your relatives.
2006-10-12 09:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he truly cares for you and your family then he should consider moving at least while you are caring for your sick mother.
2006-10-12 09:13:43 · answer #8 · answered by carasmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want to stay at home util things get better....if he loves u he'll understand and wait!
2006-10-12 09:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by Texas Made! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both move half-way.......it's called compromise.
2006-10-12 09:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋