2006-10-12 09:11:15 · 8 answers · asked by P S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, I guess the best thing to do would be to sit your kids down and just explain to them that you are not dead. Tell them that you loved their father, but he is gone and they have their own lives to live, and you need something more than to sit around looking at four walls all day every day. Tell them that you are not looking for someone to take their fathers place, just someone to take his space. Tell them that there is know reason for them to feel threatened or anything like that, but you feel like you have the right to enjoy the rest of your life, just like they are enjoying theirs.
2006-10-12 09:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by smoke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They date anyway! The widow is doing the dating, not the kids, How many times does the widows kids do something she doesn't like?
2006-10-12 09:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm engaged on that query myself. human beings have been urging me as a widow of over 2 years to get out back. I went my first date final Saturday, making confident it became in the process the day and that i had a sound reason of reducing it short if I felt uncomfortable. It became ok; I enjoyed the attention. How high-quality to have somebody decide to hold my hand back. He calls on a daily basis, yet i'm unsure approximately a night venture. As to an answer: A widow starts courting whilst she certainly might decide to spend some hours with a guy who exhibits pastime in her. A widow starts courting whilst she says to herself, "i think of i'm tired of being on my own." A widow starts courting whilst a hug from a chum isn't sufficient A widow starts courting whilst she ultimately realizes her husband is in no way coming decrease back. A widow starts courting whilst she realizes she has tremendously much forgotten what a kiss feels like. A widow starts courting whilst she starts seeing adult men as sexual beings back. A widow starts courting whilst she recalls that she is on top of problems along with her existence. A widow starts courting whilst she needs to -- and does it slowly yet with self assurance in herself.
2016-12-13 07:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by pfarr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOOO BEEEE Uuuuu!?
Widow or kid!
Do the kids work buy food and so on!!!
Are you a widow being stupid?
It is your life. The kids, IF spoiled brats, it is your fault, but they may be very concerned or don't like the Idea of Mom banging every JOEY in the door.
2006-10-12 09:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if they want to live their own lives or let their children dictate their lives. Personally if this happened to me I would tell my kids to go take a flying leap and worry about their own lives and to keep their noses out of mine.
2006-10-12 11:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mollywobbles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You buried your husband, not yourself. You have to go on living.
Not to "dis" the kids, but you have to have a happy productive life. Go out and enjoy!
2006-10-12 09:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by KB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only got one life to live, you make the decision
2006-10-12 09:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put their kids up for adoption
2006-10-12 09:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by Jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋