How do you know if a man who left his wife is no longer in love with her? Is the fact that he left for another woman evidence enough? What are the signs that he still may be hung up on her?
2006-10-12 10:08:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The other woman is always the one left feeling insecure.The wife usually picks herself up and dusts herself off, and finds a real man...the other woman gets on Yahoo asks for signs, and bites her nails every time he leaves her side.Here's a big sign for ya...commitment meant nothing to him, or he would have not cheated on his wife, he would have divorced her if things were that bad, then started dating...do you think that you're the one that will change all that sunshine? Well, you reap what you sow, and you're going to have a big garden of pain and disappointment.
2006-10-12 10:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love does not just stop or end it shifts,mutilates, mutates and goes to sleep. If you are worried that the man that left his wife to be with you might still love his ex-wife? Then here is my advise: Remember that at one time this man loved another and yes he may still have feelings for his ex. But you as a person have to trust his judgement that he fell in love with you.
I encourage you to take this man and cherish him, adore him and most of all love him in a way that he will never think to go back to his past. If he feels the same way about you he will do the same. But don't second guess his love or give him a reason to leave and don't walk on egg shells in fear he might leave.
Love is a strong poweful thing if you continue to give it to someone and they have a good soul, then the love will not be ignored and instead act like a magnet to his affection towards you. If it is meant to be it will happen if not then it won't. you can't make some one love you you can only offer your love and hope it is recieved and given back
2006-10-12 17:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, Most of the time the man is put out and really does not want to leave and then they go to the woman they are cheating with out of convience. You will never know what is in the heart of a chating man.The same thing he did to his wife with you, he will do the same thing to you. Know, think about everything you and he did while he was still married ... are the signs there?
2006-10-12 17:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by Servant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the spouse was a horrible, evil human being the other spouse should always have some love left for the other. Its just not something that goes away. Though it shouldn't be something that is in the forefront either. If he speaks fondly of her then be glad that he's not some psycho who can't forgive and forget. Too much more than that is a problem.
2006-10-12 17:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter who you are or what has happened, you will always have a soft spot for the one you married, they are the one who they thought they would spend the rest of their life with, it's just like your first ever kiss or the first time you fell in love, you always carry a special memory.
Things obviously changed for him to leave his wife in the first place and to me it takes a lot to leave such a huge commitment. Love might not be there anymore but he may be afraid to enter another commitment if that's what you are looking for.
Don't push this guy to soon, when he is ready he will tell you what next move is right for him.
2006-10-12 17:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he left for another women... you can't be sure if he want go back. Not to be rude. If a man wants to leave his wife and it has to do with just them not getting a long, then maybe. I have always seen married couple get back together and brake up a few times before it's really over.
2006-10-12 17:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by Marla C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hads children with her....He is ALWAYS going to love her. He may be able to live without her....But he has a very special place in his heart for her.
How do you know he left his wife? Maybe she kicked him out when she found out about the other woman?
I don't know if you ever "really" know he is over her. You may just have to trust what he says. Good Luck with that.
2006-10-12 17:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if he's still in contact with the ex-wife then he's hung up on her. Once he loses interest, the communication withers away. Just because he left her for someone else does not indicate that he is not interested in her - only that he's not interested in being MARRIED to her.
2006-10-12 17:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he left his wife for another woman then why do you care if he is hung up on his ex or not. Unless you were the other woman which means you are a whore and why should it matter to you anyway. If you are not the woman he left his wife for, do you really want to be with a cheater?
2006-10-12 17:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by Got2seeit 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you are always a bit hung up on them, after all we spent time with them, but we move on in other ways,, cant erase our thoughts and the stuff we did together,, that is why during sex you never ask " have you ever done that," or " have you ever felt that before" we all have a past, shouldnt be dug into except the part about STDs
2006-10-12 17:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋