OK, I went to Cardiff over a week ago. On the train back I met this amazing girl. I thought we really clicked and I found she goes to a nearby uni. I gave her my mobile number and email (i didn't take hers because I have a bad habit of acting desperate when it comes to girls and didn't want to scare her off).
Anyway, I've had no reply and think she isn't interested. My friends, however, think she has lost my number and think I should go look for her at this nearby uni. I know enough about her to find her (I think) on the campus (including name and course).
Ladies I ask u. Does this sound like the mark of a sad, desperate and scary individual? If it is then I'll guess I'm correct and leave it be. Or do u think it is rather corny and sweet and worth attempting. Honest answers and opinions please.
2006-10-12 09:56:52 · 10 answers · asked by Knight-wing 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you have to do is send this lady a note. If you know her name, course and uni you are halfway there, so send her a note, tell her exactly what you told us and take it from there. If she doesn't contact you she isn't interested.
2006-10-12 10:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It trying to find the line between stalker and interested sweet guy... how about sending her a letter to the uni just saying hi and would like to take her out for a drink sometime keep it casual and if you don't hear from her accept that she not interested. but you will probably find that when you least expect to meet someone and when your not looking it will just happen.
2006-10-12 17:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, I think it's cute.
If I was that girl I would be pretty shy to actually call you. I would probably go the email route but I still be hesitiant about that. I would wait just a few more days and if you still want to contact her try finding a number or email address and contacting her. Worst comes to worst, she just isn't interested.
Good luck though!
2006-10-12 17:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by Rx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know enough about her to know where to find her, then she definitely liked you. Believe me you wouldn't have got as much as a name out of her if she didn't and her body language would have told you to back off!
Don't go loitering around the campus though or you may be mistaken as a stalker! Its possible she lost your number. Maybe you could pass your details on to her again through a friend and If she doesn't contact you then, then you will have your answer and know to forget it and move on!! Good luck.
2006-10-12 18:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by angel1902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have her name?? then she is interested as i wouldnt tell my name to a complete stranger remember she is probably sitting there wondering whether she should have called or if she will sound desperate so instead of walking around campus like a loon call the college and leave a message with your number on it just in case shes lost it then she can call you knowing you are interested and she is not embarrassing herself also then if she doesnt call you know she isnt interested without ever having to look her in the eye while she says get lost good luck xx
2006-10-12 17:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by leanne_on_line 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave it. If you gave your number and email add then the ball is in her court. Maybe you could "happen" to be in the same bar/pub as her or something one eve? Dont look desperate it will definately put her off!
2006-10-12 17:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by purpletia2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it mate, whats the worst that could happen? maybe send her some flowers or something with you number saying that you would like to take her out for a meal! Its worth a try mate
2006-10-12 17:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by smity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think if a guy i really liked had given me his number and e-mail I wouldnt have lost it so think if you dont hear from her she isnt interested.
Dont think is a good idea to go looking for her.
2006-10-12 17:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by carolm876 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it will make you seem desperate and wut if she has a bf that she didnt mention about and may be she doesnt want her bf to think she's cheating by calling u. u never know. go 4 it if u want but if it were me that would be creepy if some guy i dont really know was looking for me
2006-10-12 17:04:25 · answer #9 · answered by unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go for it, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain and at the end of the day, if she thinks you're a loser then its her loss cuz how many other guys would take the time and effort to track her down?! good luck!!
2006-10-12 17:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by p_y_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋