Is your fiance overly excited about the planning of your wedding, that sometimes it gets on your nerves. I'm just asking becasue I find myself talking about the wedding so much, and I hope I'm not getting on his nerves. I am just so excited!!!!
2006-10-12 09:51:29 · 5 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Nobody is going to be able to tell you how YOUR fiance feels about it.... youre going to have to ask him. Say to him "I know how excited I am to be getting married to you, but it occurred to me the other day that my excitement might be annoying. Does it bother you to listen to me ramble on about the wedding details?"
He will be honest with you if he values your relationship.
MY fiance' is not interested in the tiny details, but is VERY interested in the larger details and especially interested when it came to the "Men's Side" of things (Tuxes, Speeches, Etc)
Just find out what part of the wedding and reception interest him the most and let him work on those points with you.
Good Luck
2006-10-12 10:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is probaby annoyed.
My husband's uncle lives in Germany.
While we were engaged(about 4 months before the wedding) he came to the US for a visit.
Well when he was at my future Mother-in-Law's house all her heard was about our wedding.
Boy was he suprised when he spent the day with us, & we did not mention the wedding at all!
I know you are excited, but you have to realize that a wedding is one day & a marriage is a lifetime.
2006-10-12 18:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by ee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm definitely driving my fiance nuts. Oh well! I'm the one spending all my time planning...the least he can do is listen to me talk about it!
It is exciting, but they don't really care about the details. I think if you were getting on his nerves THAT much, you'd know :)
2006-10-12 19:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by abbya11111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I drove my fiance insane, I really did. We fought so much because he was so tired of hearing about the silly little details that men do NOT care about. Eventually, I had to just plan the little things and only bring the big things to him on an approval basis.
For example, I would say "We're going with pink and white roses, ok?" and he'd either say it was okay or, if he really, really cared, he'd object. Or I'd say "Which do you want...lemon or chocolate cake?" rather than drag him to all the different places.
He was much more agreeable this way.
2006-10-12 16:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would assume he may get annoyed if you are so excited about the planning and not so much excited about marrying him...maybe you should shift your conversations to how excited you are about HIM not the wedding...
2006-10-12 16:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋