I'm fixing to get married but my fiance has been acting funny. Like one night he went out with his bestfriend but didnt tell me they invited a girl to go with them. It wasnt a big deal so why couldnt he tell me? Then today I find emails from a girl he use to have sex with ( they didnt date, just had sex ) she is married now and has a child, but in the email she talked how she didnt know he had a gf because last time they talked he had never spoken of one. He has been acting really distant latley saying he has class work which he never use to have, he said its because its after mid-term ( he is in college ) i dont know if he has really been busy or not. I couldnt even call him last night because out of nowhere he had 2 papaers to write. So whats he thinking?
2006-10-12 09:53:33 · 6 answers · asked by kelli_w_85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'd postpone this marriage until you find out some answers. Better to wait. I didn't and it was the worst mistake I ever made. There's plenty of time to get married, but when you want a divorce, seems like it can't happen quick enough.
SLOW DOWN!
2006-10-12 10:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that your fiance is trying to take advantage of the time before he ties the knot with you-not take advantage in a bad way!-just go and hang out with people he has not seen in a while, do his thing with the guys, whatever else he might want. he knows that once you two get married life will not be what he has right now so he is just trying to have some fun. i think that he might just want to meet up with old friend, or maybe he is trying to play you . i know college life is hectic and maybe he actually had two papers due at the last minute! if you are not willing to trust the guy that you are about to marry then what the hell are you doing marrying him anyway? i know it sounds harsh but you should never question the other person especially your fiance since most likely he loves you more than you know, and love is never questioned in a relationship and same is with trust! if you have doubts now what will happen down the road, in lets say 5 years, will you guys be together or divorced? i am not married not even close to getting married yet i am only 22 and i can tell you that if you quetion your bf, fiance, as well as the trust then it is a shame. talk with him and see what is going on.
2006-10-12 17:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he changed his mind and he is avoiding telling you. I would talk to him about it in a non-confruntational way. Simpley ask him if has has had second thoughts on getting married and if he has, you need to know now instead of finding out after the wedding.
It will be a hard thing to do, but it he definately doesn't sound like a man in love who's getting ready for that day when he gets to share his love for you with all of your friends and family.
2006-10-12 17:01:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could do what i do when i get jealous (follow him around, check his mobile, question him constantly) which will probably make you miserable and him mad (whether he's guilty or not!) OR be extra nice to him - if he's cheating it might make him feel guilty and start treating you better OR ask her? (don't make her mad tho coz she'll tell him) just introduce yourself and maybe get on her good side to find out the truth?OR make him tell you the truth?
2006-10-12 17:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by hanawormy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with what your heart says!
2006-10-13 01:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by MissChatea 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think he wants u but maybe u should confront him about this
2006-10-12 17:01:26 · answer #6 · answered by ilovezech1992 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋