Flirting through aggression??????????????
My best friend is always hitting me playfully. She is a girl, I'm a guy, we are 15, and people keep saying she is flirting. Today, for example, she just hit me in the head with a school book (lol) for no reason. We have known each other for 2 years. First off, do you think this actually is her way of flirting? She doesn't do it to other people. And also, what should I do back? Should I also playfully mess around with her?
Is this actually a way of flirting?
Also, when she isn't messing like this, she is more serious to me than others, she tells me if she is feeling bad.
Another thing related to mthis is that when we are around friends, she does this and we playfully mock each other, but when we are alone she is more sincere with me.
All of theis is playfull, she is fairly petite, so its not as if she could do me any damage.
I do like her back, alot.
2006-10-12 09:51:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-12 09:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by seanachie60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is flirting for that age. She likes you. But she does not come out and say it. But is showing you. This is not a bad thing. I think it is cute to see the puppy love stage in young teenagers. See it in the malls and places sometimes. But if you like it where it is at then just go with the flow. It is good that she has someone to talk to when she is feeling bad. You are a good friend to her. She can trust you to be there for her.
If you like her alot in return things will grow maybe between you two. As far as some of your other questions. Yes it is okay to be playful back with her.But a good way to show someone you care for them is to do nice things for them. And yes it is a form of Flirting. For your age grouping. The also part in your letter at the bottom. This means she trust you more then other ppl. This is not a bad thing at all.
But it looks like you have a close bond between you too. That is something special.
Hope some of this helps you. I have a three teenage kids so I have seen puppy love.
2006-10-12 10:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by redneckbratt_talking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she likes u trust me im a girl and have seen other girls do itto guys that they like dont get me wrong im not a lesbien i show my love anthor way by being nice to the guy i like
2006-10-12 09:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who gives a crap......hit in head with book=yeah she wants you!!!!! I D I O T
2006-10-12 09:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's definately flirting with you. you should tell her when you think the time is right that you like her.
2006-10-12 09:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that´s right she seems to like you. Ever tried to kiss her?
2006-10-12 09:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by MMS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww...puppy love...
2006-10-12 09:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by JennyAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋