my friend always makes up excusses not to hang out with me. Maybe its because she really already has plans? maybe not but im still not sure. im not sure if she feels the same way but this is ruining our friendship!!
2006-10-12 09:16:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know what you mean. I have a friend outside of school who doesn't seem to want to hang out with me. She never asks me first of all. And when I ask her she just doesnt seem too thrilled. And a lot of time she doesn' call me back. But I like her I just wish she would take more steps to show that she wants to hang out with me too. Because I don't know if she likes me or not. I don't know it's very hard to tell. But I suggest you just analyze the situation. If she's a really good friend, then she would want to spend time with you right? I think you should stop asking her and wait for her to ask you to hang out. But if she doesn't do that then start hanging out more with other friends so you don't get too close to someone that doesn't make time for you. This is a descion I have to make as well. Good luck! I hope it helped you out!
2006-10-12 09:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by tropical girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might not want to hang out with you because shes doing something she doesnt want you to know about. like last year my friend was doing the exact same thing to me and i felt the same way you seem to feel. it was horrible. like here i had my best friend who didnt seem to want to hang out with me anymore and it made me feel horrible. well a few weeks later i find out she was blowing me off to get high with her brother. go figure. and she said she didnt want to tell me because she thought i would get mad at her for doing it. what you need to do is start hanging out with some new people to get her kind of jelous that you arent available all the time for her and try to confront her about it. thats what i ended up doing to my freiend, i confronted her about it and she didnt know she made me feel so bad. so now we're pretty much all good and back to normal. hope this helps.
2006-10-12 09:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by LongingForYourTouch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the friend ship will end soon that should get them to like you more and hang with you more or invite them some where to hang out at.
2006-10-12 09:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it tell her your sad because you would like to spend time with her since she is your friend.
2006-10-12 09:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend likes brownies, put one on a chain around your neck.
2006-10-12 09:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by timc_fla 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋