I has a miscarriage about 4 months ago my husband and i are trying and trying to get pregnant again but no luck, i feel so bad when i see a pregnant woman or a couple with a baby i feel like crying because i cant get pregnant my family tells me to be patients that i am only 22 but i had high hopes with my 1st pregnancy and i lost it, what can i do?? Does anyone out there have any tips to get pregnant?? Perhaps i am not having intercourse on the days im supposed to i dont have any specific sign or symptoms of when i am ovulating, can someone please tell me when to have intercourse. I am so miserable today a lady asked me if i could help her because she was pregnant and i was like are you serious? I did in on purpose because i cant stand the fact that ive been trying for a baby and nothing, by the way i know its wasnt the poor womans fault Please Please help!!!
2006-10-12 09:19:00 · 8 answers · asked by Juliet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get one of those ovulation kits. Talk to your OBGYN about it. don't stress, it will happen when the time is right for you. You are still young, you have time- obviously God doesn't think its the right time for you. Be patient, in good time, it will happen.
2006-10-12 10:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, losing a baby must be terribly difficult. So it is very normal that you feel low. You are young, so it is very unlikely that you are not able to conceive within a few months. I know it is hard to do, but you should trust that this will happen.
There are various signs that you are ovulating and I suggest you ask a doctor to take you through them.
All in all, if you have sex, say, every 2 days in the middle of your cycle, that should be fine.
If you can, just try to get your mind out of this. However, you first need to grieve for the loss of your baby, and then have the confidence to accept that it was meant to be this way (better have a miscarriage than losing a new born).
Good luck to you. One day, all this will be behind and you'll hold your gorgeous baby.
2006-10-12 09:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by Claire 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's always hard to lose a baby at any stage, but I believe everything happens for a reason. Looking at the positive side, what if something was wrong with the baby, a miscarriage is nature's way of saying the baby is not strong enough to survive life. They say when you stop looking for a husband and just relax you suddenly find yourself married, the same goes for babies, when you stop trying and just enjoy your husband and your life together, it will just happen. Be patient, when you stop obsessing about it you'll realize Hey I'm pregnant!
2006-10-12 09:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by Phoebe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women ovulate 14 days before and 14 days after their period if they are on a regular 28 day cycle. Your first step is to talk to your gynecologist and make sure that your body is ready for another pregnancy. When it is get an ovulation kit from the drug store, wal mart etc. GOOD LUCK
2006-10-12 09:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have known a number of couples over the years including my own sister. They say "Oh yeah, we are trying to have a baby but....." And the minute they quit trying for a while. Surprise!!!!
When you think of all the "love children" out there which were mistakes supposedly. Then think of those children from "determined parents" which I don't think there are that many. Don't you think there is a difference between making love and having sex for reproduction????? You do have a few years right? :-)) Enjoy yourself with your husband and it will come, so to speak.
2006-10-12 09:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by gbdelta1954 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NUMBER 1- purchase an ovulating kit for best dates to conceive...NUMBER 2 and MOST importantly - RELAX!!!! Stop trying to get pregnant. You are concentrating on getting pregnant so much that you are stressing yourself out and throwing your system all out of whack. You need to stop wondering and worrying about it and I betcha it will happen. You need to be stress free so your body is calm and can accept a baby. This will happen for you but you really should TRY to chill out. Eat right, follow your doctors orders and I bet your pregnant soon. G'luck!
2006-10-12 09:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what the doctor told me & I got pregnant easily>>> Begin counting the first day of your period, then count up to 7 days... from the 8th day & for 6 more days, is the time of ovulation.
Also, if you drink (tea, sodas) or eat anything with caffeine in it (chocolate has caffeine), it can cause you to be too nervous to conceive... being relaxed is very important.
2006-10-12 09:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like your family said be patient. u could be trying too hard
2006-10-12 09:23:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋