Does this convo seem like we're flirting can you tell if he really likes me?

Question

Tom's 18( we worked 2gether 4 a couple of months as baggers at a grocery store, he knows I like him, he's never had a g/f before. he went away 2 college 2 hours away but will be back 4 winter break.he said we'd see each other.here's parts of our convo, do you think he likes me, and why do you think that?
I asked him if we could hang out on winter break told him I missed him a lot.he said sure, we shouldbe able to sometime with a big smiley face that makes me really happy;-) ya!
Tom :-D
ME: hahaha ur so kool
ME:and legal so that's good too lol
Tom: lol
Tom: indeed i am :-D
ME : hahaha:-P
ME:gotta love dat
Tom:lol
ME:whenever I talk to you I can't stop smiling; I'm such a dork, lol
Tom: lol
ME 8-)
ME:that's ms kool
Tom 8-)
ME: yep, I know ur kool, don't flaunt it LOL
Tom:lol
Tom: i can if i want
Tom: 8-)8-)8-)
ME:hahaha ya you know it
ME: :-P
then we laughed and I told him that he gets me dizzy(in a good way).btw I just turned 24.he's 18.

Answer 1

Is this how people really talk these days? Ugh...

Answer 2

No, I don't see anything there that would be a flirt. He just might be using those smiley faces because he doesn't want to type that much to you. Also, remember the man is the head of the relationship. Do you really want a guy 6 years younger to tell you what to do?

Answer 3

well let me tell you from experiance that you deserve someone older than you i dated a guy that was four years younger than me and I am not gonna lie i loved him but when push come to shove an older man wouldve taken better care of me and they understand more......... we dated for a year and a half and it was great but its not like four years is a big difference but it is when you are two different stages in life what i mean is 18 is very youthful and 34 is as well but he is just starting to see life and partying and stuff and you are not old by any means but by the time he is ready to really party you will want to settle down ya know

Answer 4

Sorry, but it doesn't seem like he's interested.

It seemed like he could have been busy and annoyed at the time when you were talking to him, so all he said was lol, :-D & 8-).

Enough to think that you two are cool with each other.

P.S. You're way too old to be talking like that, "ms kool."

And when you said something about being legal, so borderline pedophile.

Answer 5

My dear, by your conversation, you sure sound 18 too. I don't really think u need that guy, what with his age and never had a gf before. But whatever makes u going. If you like him enough, go for it. It sounds like he likes u too. All the best.:)

Answer 6

srry, but ur kinda old for him, maybe try to find a guy ur age. i dont think he was flrtin with someone 6 yrs older. he probably just wants to be a really good friend, but since hes in college,he will find girls there. srry theres other guys out there

Answer 7

Yes I think he does like you and has been dying to turn 18 so he could go out with ou.

Answer 8

Something like this happended to me when I was in college.

Hes been to college and hang out with alot of girls his own age. He may like you, but only for some MiLF like action.

Answer 9

I am going to be honest although I Hate to break the bubble - if he was at all interested he would have typed a few words at least.. his attitude seems very dead to me..

Answer 10

Umm..hate to break it to ya but the only thing he really typed was LOL...There's really nothing there that shows he might be interested...He's just flirting...That's all...Good luck