I'm labeled a slutt at my school...What should i do???

Question

I was the nice kind of girl and always been that way to people at that school but everyone kept getting on my nerves so then I became kind of mean.
I'm not really mean but have an attitude problem.
And my friendz think I actually act like Manny ( i thought it was an inside joke but it's really getting serious).
They say i flirt with all the boyz...
Because all the boyz say "hi" to me and then my so called friend got mad at me so she ask every boy out for me and i didn't know.
And I have to hide my pain.... Because my heart been broken and i have bad family problems...
And i'm just trying to be happy at the one place that i can be happy.. which is school. I can forget about all my problems until i found out all this time all the girls think i'm a slutt most of the boyz think i am 2!..
WHAT SHOULD I DO???

I cannot speak to the school couneslour she thinks i'm mean and evil because someone set me up!!!! And everythinks i'm mean even the vice principal.

Answer 1

you have to act above it... don't let what other say change who are... stay strong and ignor all the negative talk....

Answer 2

Your ? really hit home. I went through the same thing in school. I was the nicest person until people constantly picked with me and I ended up the bitter ***** that I am today. I was labeled a ho and no one ever even knew who I dated because I never dated anyone in my school. DO NOT let those people turn you into a bitter person. Let them talk cause they're going to anyways. Don't let other people control your happiness. If your so called friend is acting like that towards you, find a new friend. I know it may seem hard, but trust me, it'll make your life a lot easier. Maybe not instantly, but it will happen. I don't want you to become the ***** i've become because of what other people say or think. I had all guy friends i n school because there was less drama from them and of course I was a ho then too, but I never slept with any of them. People are gonn a talk regardless. You can't change that, but you do have control over you. You are the most important. Take care of you. Get you a friend that you can talk to and not judge you. I know that good friends are hard to find. I only have one friend and that's just fine by me. If you have no one to talk to, holla at me. I feel your pain. It's bringing back memories of my teenage years, and if I can help any young person not go through what I went through I am all for it.

Answer 3

High school has its highs and low and most of all it has it's times when everyone around you seems to be critical of who you are. The good thing is that everything in any school has a shelf life of about 15 minutes. I think that you should consider speaking to the school counselor about your problems at home (if you feel comfortable). Then you might consider being a little nicer. Not to everyone, but it never hurts to smile sometimes, especially if this place makes you happy. Trust, all of this will blow over and soon someone else will be the new topic of conversation. Just remember that no one likes to be ridiculed for who they are, and maybe when the next person is getting ragged on you can be more empathetic because you have been there.

Answer 4

Sweetie, I don't mean any disrespect, but do you think you might be looking for a relationship with a boy to fill the void left by having a bad home life? Really good girls can fall into this trap easily. If you don't get affection in one healthy place, you may look for it in an unhealthy place.

There is not much you can do to change your reputation. The only thing you can do from this point forward is change your behavior and work on yourself. If you continue with anger you will have few friends. If you change your attitude you could turn your life around. Don't set yourself up for failure with an early pregnancy. (Having a bad home life leads to early teen pregnancy.)

And also remember. Things are not always as bad as they seem. A bad reputation is not the end of the world. What really matters is the truth, and you know the truth. I wish you luck.

Answer 5

hiya, you're somewhat perfect - i'm inspired via what you have mentioned the stairs which you laid out lamentably are no longer observed via incredibly everyone. in the event that they have been then there may be plenty much less women with undesirable pregnancies. whilst a man or woman has a significant courting and intercourse is an expression of love then there is not any longer something 'slutty' approximately that, irrespective of their age. the girls who i've got self assurance sorry for are people who sleep with all and sundry at any time and don;t wait till it fairly is an expression of love yet merely desire their basic primal urges happy. I don;t use the word slut to describe all and sundry.. you may in no way make such huge assertion like the twit you're concerning - merely forget approximately them. regards MGD 260411

Answer 6

If you are not a slut then honey you have nothing to worry about. I think maybe you need to find some new friends. If the girls that you hang out with where your real friends then they wouldn't go around asking out boys without your permission. Sounds to me that the people that go to your school are jealous because there are some guys that are saying hi to you. You should go to a school counselor or teacher that you trust and talk to them if you are having family problems. You don't need to keep everything bottled up inside of you. Good luck. Hugs!!

Answer 7

sadly middle school and high school are rough. (I wouldn't go back, so i'm glad its over)
and there my be very little you can do or say to sway the minds of people who are making up thoughtless, hurtful rumors.

the good news?

people will be on to the next rumor and you'll be old news quick... the teenage attention span is quicker than that of a microwave....

remember that just because people believe it, doesn't make it true.

remember you're a good person

try to invest more in what you think about yourself than what other people do (it may sound silly but this may be the best advice you'll ever get, if you actually follow it).

chin up! I've been through it all, you'll make it!

Answer 8

First off:
Think back, have u flirted with to many guy?
Have you given them a reason to believe it? like dress inappropriate for school? wear too too too much make up?
Do you like to be the center of attention?

Second off:
If NO to all that above, then there is no reason to believe Ur a SL**,
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I can recommend to just ignore does that have said that, if ur so called friends think ur that, having know u for a few years o months then they are not ur friends, cuz a true friend believes u in no matter what. So you should back off them for a while, Find new friends, even if its a ON-LINE friends, Believe me i met alot of people on-line an they turn out to me the best friends i ever had.

Well if u need a friend to talk too, I gladly offer my friendship.

Answer 9

Hey let me tell you your not the first one something like this has happened too, Now I'm not a weirdo or anything but find your self a good Christian youth group and get involved, but with that being said, give it a week most people will start forgetting about it, now PLEASE don't give them anything new to talk about, lay low for a few weeks, looks like you need some new friends, also. If you remove your self from some of your friends, than problems like this go away,

God Bless
RS

Answer 10

Just remember who all your friends are.... Your real friends. Dont let what supoerficial people think of you bring you down. Keep being yourself. I used to be picked on verbally in my schools, but im in a much better situation now than most of the jerks I went to school with. You are who you are. If someone calls you something, that doesnt mean thats what you are. Just keep plugging away. dont let it get to you. I know it sounds repetative, but its the truth. You can not let what they say get you down. If it doe, then they win. If you ignore them, you are the bigger person, and when you realize that, you will be happier for it.

Answer 11

it's not ur fault u get along with the guys more than the girls and your friend just got jealous that you got more of the attention from the guys. That was messed up of her to go and ask all the guys out for you. but then again that's high school and in high school everyone likes a good gossip and they all spread rumors about everyone. i would say just tough it out keep talking to those who u trust.