he has never ever wanted to give me a picture of his. I have asked many times and he says he will, but he never does. We even took pictures together one day and he said he'd give me one later - which he never did; he claims he's lost them. He says that I will probably be showing them off to my friends and that people will recognize him.
You see, he is married; and I have a relationship with someone else, but he knows that I truly truly LOVE him. I wouldn't hurt him by showing his picture to anyone. After 7 years and it really hurts that he still can't trust me. I just want a picture of him because I hardly ever see him (he's working out of town). How can I convince him to just let me have a tiny picture?
2006-10-12 08:54:45 · 10 answers · asked by Ladyinred 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Oh Dear,
How in the world do u land up in a situation like this ?
All what u are doing is wrong, dating a married guy, expecting him to love you and on top of that claiming that u love him a lot ?
What do u expect ?
What YOU really want. I'll take a wild guess here and bet that the kind of guy that you truly want isn't the kind of guy who would act how this guy is acting. As in, the kind of guy who would sleep with a woman and then act distant and irritated and not trust you So, sorry for asking but... What the hell are you doing!? You're wasting your energy trying to get the love and approval of someone who is already deceiving one women HIS Wife, If I werr you I would not even want to be with!?
Ok, now You need a lesson on who a man really is. The feminine energy grows with fullness, praise, connection and love, to allow a kind of "surrender" in all kinds of joyful experiences. With sex, women surrender to the experience with a man through love and connection, which can make the man and woman as one. But the masculine energy doesn't work this way. At least not in the "darker" part of a man. The masculine energy is VERY different. The masculine energy seeks to break through challenges all alone and arrive at its desire - "emptiness" and "freedom", men often seek this physical challenge of sex as a goal unto itself, where they can break through to a temporary "freedom". A man will NEVER see you exactly the way you want him to see you, or value you exactly
the way you know you should be valued!!
My Advice: Back Off and leave him (hope he dose not try to black mail u with those photographs)and wait for that perfect guy who will eventually come along and love u truly and then you both can live happily ever after without trying to play hide and seek with THIS MARRIED MAN.
gOOD LUCK>
2006-10-12 23:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by Rahul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU WHAT?? hes married and your in a relationship? so you have been having an affair for 7 years????
well it seems that hes just using you as a f%$k, no wonder he doesnt want you to have his picture, hes married and doesnt want his wife to find out, he probably thinks your going to do something mad and show some people and it will eventually get back to his wife, my advice is i think you should stop destroying peoples lives, because what goes around comes around... your a homewrecker and a cheat! sorry but im just stating my opinion!
2006-10-12 16:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have camera mobile and go and meet him and kiss him. take little and dont show mobile as you got chance to click the photo and make some little noice to he didnot hered the sound of chicking. save the picture . send that to your e mail inbox. after you delete the photo in mobile. but take care dont hurt him. SEX IS A PART OF LOVE BUT SEX IS NOT LIFE
2006-10-13 04:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by raju 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My advice would be a bit harsh but, just get over him. He does not deserve you. Just forget him . If he can cheat his wife what is the guarantee that he is not cheating you. I think you have just wasted 7 wonderful years of you life
2006-10-12 16:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i m sure from your lines. he will never give his pic to u.so from today onwards don't ask for pic.otherwise you will loose your relationship.you spend seven years with him it means a good relation you r having.
2006-10-12 16:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by pari 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont know... is there something he is hiding from you? Or does he honestly have a legit reason for doing that?
2006-10-12 15:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he is not interested u can ask one from me as I would willingly give it to u
2006-10-13 03:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by jagdishjl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
express him what ever is there in u r heart for him
2006-10-14 08:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by chowdary c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just forget him ..he is useless..u ll be cheated by him one day..so dont waste ur time..
2006-10-12 17:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by venkat 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave him
2006-10-15 09:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by shubhangi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋