stay the night with him, as I had said before. I had been around him before, yes he is 46, and I will not turn 26 until January. I had a little to drink, as did he, but not enough to make me do something I wouldn't want to do. I am sometimes shy, and sometimes not. I did take all my clothes off before I got into bed with him, things did happen, but not all the way, I wish I could go back. I would have not changed that, but I wonder about him so much. I am not after him for money, or to help with my situation. I do like him, and am very turned on by him. He is able to be with anyone. I can't stop thinking about him. I have asked questions about this, and have gotten some really good advice, and appreciate all of it. I just don't know what to do. I think I should go back and meet him, go out, and see what happens. I do love the way he makes me feel. I like the fact that hes older. Is this wrong to be attracted to an older man, and to have slept with him, and undressed in front of him?
2006-10-12 08:55:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am recently divorced, he is not married. I feel like I should go and meet him and tell him how I feel about him.
2006-10-12 08:56:57 · update #1
He has also been married, he married a woman with a 2 year old, had a son with her, and she decided after the son was 19, to leave him. He has been calling me, and he has asked me to dinner, he came to my college and left me a note on my windshield.
2006-10-12 09:03:01 · update #2
I think that anything thats done from the heart can't be wrong and from what you've wrote I think you're right and you already know your answer. Go for it!
2006-10-12 09:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by dannyjohn4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a huge age difference. I think you should look for someone closer to your own age. If you did fall in love with this guy think about how things would go... When you're 46 and still very active, he will be 66 and could be in a nursing home. You may lose your physical attraction to him as he ages. Why are you interested in someone so much older when you could have someone much more attractive? Is your self esteem low? Are you looking for a father type figure that makes you feel safe and cared for? Do you have a good relationship with your father?
2006-10-12 16:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt read your previous question, but be careful because he is 46 and has never been married....my point. He might not be the commitment kind of guy and end up breaking yoru heart. Becareful who you trust with your feelings.
2006-10-12 15:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on if he was interested he would run after you which he does not seem to do.he just used you as you were desperate.now wait for him to contact you-otherwise forget him.keep your dignity.
2006-10-12 16:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by IKNOWNO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel ashamed.
2006-10-12 15:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by chandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋