ladies give me your thoughts.....lets say you were dating a guy& u thought he was great and he had told you early on that he does not like ORAL sex giving or getting?? WOuld youstill stay with him?? This girl I started dating told me that and I dont know if I should stop seeing her b.c I enjoy oral and why should I give that up?? any help?
2006-10-12 08:56:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its like this...if i was into oral sex and he wasn't well then there is no way to work it out because that means i would have to give it up so i would just find someone with the same feelings as i have. Now for you...well you shouldn't have to give it up but it depends on how much you like her and maybe if you don't like her enough to give it up then i would say you should just simply find someone who shares the same feelings about oral sex as you do.
2006-10-12 09:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by Diamond girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how important oral sex is to you. If it's important that your partner gives as well as enjoys receiving then you probably should move on...if she's a great girl other than that and it isn't all that important to you then you should stay.
2006-10-12 09:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by hotsavannah21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she doesn't feel comfortable with oral sex and she doesn't like doing it then dont make her and if u love her so much then u have to give it up but if u dont then move on with another girl thats ur type
2006-10-12 09:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by ♥still luvin u♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i wouldn't care if you do like that, you just better know your not getting it from me and i'm not going to give it to you..
I would stay with you if you promise not to pressure me into doing that.And accept my opinon like accpet yours.
But she's probaly worrying about getting an diesase talk it over and accpet each other differences and then don't do nothing at all like oral because if you pressure her into doing that she wouldn't like you at all.
2006-10-12 09:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she hasn't had much experience or is shy. try going down on her and show her what she is missing, she may return the favor and actually learn to enjoy. if she doesn't and u love oral that much, u have no choice really but to give one of them up. girl? bj? hmmm.... i know wot i would choose....good luck
2006-10-12 09:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by Hatty Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats weird, she doesnt like giving or getting? wow, anyway if its not a big deal for you then i guess you could stay with her, but if its something that you enjoy, and you stay with her chances are you might cheat with someone else who is willing to do it
2006-10-12 09:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I would, in time she will begin to feel comfortable around you as your relationship progresses and you both try new things with each other. Don't force her to do anything she doesn't want to do it will all come to you in time.
2006-10-12 09:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by ball_cathie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to work her up to it. i know it sounds crazy but give her a safe word to use that way if it starts to become to much for her she can use it to get you to stop. safe words arent just for hardcore sex.
2006-10-12 09:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if you really like her then you can go without it the girl should be more important than what you want to do with her but if you don't really like her then dump her and find somebody that you do like :)
2006-10-12 09:01:14 · answer #9 · answered by allie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dip your banana in some chocolate. Chicks love chocolate and she'll be all over you.
2006-10-12 09:03:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋