transcript of an IM conversation that we had so that she could prove that she was in the right. The transcript pretty much "proved" that we were both "right" in one way or another. But, what bothers me is that she even HAD a transcript of our 2 month old conversation. I mean, she saved this & then had to go back thru her transcripts to find the right conversation. This seems a little over the tip - and even a tad bit nuts. What do you think? (By the way, I didn't even know she was archiving all our conversations - it makes me feel a bit weirded out by her now.)
2006-10-12 08:55:35 · 12 answers · asked by J.Z. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sorry - that was supposed to read "over the top."
2006-10-12 08:56:06 · update #1
We are both in our 30s and college graduates, so yes, this does seem a bit emotionally immature to me, too.
2006-10-12 09:04:13 · update #2
some people will go to extremes to prove a point, and some people always have to be right, I believe your friend is such a person, as to weather she stays a friend is up to you,as you now know you will be under scrutiny
2006-10-12 08:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she doesnt save all of your conversations just ones that she feels may come back to ya...as this one did. I have saved a few IM convos from my friends. When we disagree on something or I know they were wrong about something I would save the conversation BUT I always told them I was doing it so I COULD throw it back up in their face.
2006-10-12 08:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? What difference does it make whether not she saves the conversations. To me it's no different than having a diary and writing down your conversation in that. This way is easier. They're conversations you're having with her so I don't see the problem.
2006-10-12 08:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just limit my conversations with her, or talk on the phone if possible. I mean, if she is archiving your conversations who knows what other weirdness she could be up to. It also wouldn't hurt to express to your friend your displeasure with her actions.
2006-10-12 09:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by rmeedoc1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 05:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wonder why she is saving this stuff. Is she so paranoid that sh has to prove everything to her self or is she obsessing on you? Either way I think I would not send IMs to her. Yes she is weird or sick or something.
2006-10-12 09:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by BUPPY'S MEME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with all due respect.. your friend seems a bit emotionally immature. Maybe trust/self-esteem issues. I dont know how old u r.. but at any age.. that is a bit fanatic.. Gluck
2006-10-12 09:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by MIMSTRIK 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is kinda weird. And the fact that you friend is bringing up the past like that is just wrong. But, dont let it ruin your friendship. See if you can get her to drop it, and you two can put it behind you.
2006-10-12 08:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by D-Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like she was just waiting to prove herself, i agree kinda strange she kept a 2 month conversation, maybe she was trying to start a fight with you
2006-10-12 09:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is strange. she seems like she is really self absorbed and set on proving herself right. she is pretty mych trying to sabotage your firendship. she did go over hte top.
2006-10-12 08:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋