I've been seeing this chick for a month and a half, but recently she's become really busy with her uni studies. She told me that she couldn't spend much time with me at all, which was ok, but then when she's sposed to be busy she tells me she's going out on dinners with her best friend on several occasions. Her best friend went through a really bad bad break up, and now my gf's become all insecure about our r'ship now. She thinks i'm going to leave her, then she's now conerned about the age gap (she's older by 2 years), she thinks all guys are assholes.......i dunno what to do. When i text her she replies instantly but she's more cold in her responses. I can't really ring her up because she's really busy with her uni work and she made that clear to me. Anyway advice would be great.......thanks
2006-10-12 08:55:19 · 5 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm in university and we're just in the middle of midterms... so I feel her pain here. I wouldn't be jealous of her spending time with her friend... she just went through a breakup and it's only natural for your girlfriend to be there for her. You don't see many girls dating younger guys, so she must have seen some real potential in you, and you have that to your advantage. Try not to be really clingy, because being busy with school and everything, she's not going to appreciate that. Go for small, sincere gestures to show her how much you care. Give her a massage, offer to help her study, etc. Be sincere and loving, and that's the most anyone can ask of you. I'm sure you'll be fine as you sound like a good guy, but if she does end up breaking up with you... please don't take it too hard. It's probably got nothing to do with you and more the fact that she's at a different stage of her life. Two years isn't much, but the transition from high school to university is pretty huge.
2006-10-12 09:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by deepwaters05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she's trying to get you to break it off so she won't look like the bad guy in the relationship. she makes time for everyone else but you.... get out now before you care too much
2006-10-12 15:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're interested in staying with her.....stop calling. it will make her get worried that you don't like her, which is the surest way to get a woman...or in your case get her back.
if she really wants to break up with you, you have nothing to lose.
2006-10-12 16:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you silly inexperience guy, shes digging another fella out thur on da campis
2006-10-12 15:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's making you do the dirty work and make you break up with her. Do it and move on.
2006-10-12 15:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋