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How can I spice up the bed room life? Any sexy suggestions?

Answer 1

Hi Lissa....try;

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8 Ways To Go Beyond The Bedroom
By Oskar McHendry
Sex Education Correspondent - Every Saturday


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Getting wild between the sheets with your girl is all good and well, but sometimes you want to change your sexual habits so they feel brand spanking new. I mean, who wants to get predictable? That's why you want to expand your sexual terrain beyond the bedroom to other areas of the house.
That said, check out the places and things you can use in and around your home to improve your sex life.

1- Put her on the washer
Somehow the rumor got started that the vibrations of a washing machine make women orgasm. Whether or not this is true isn't as important as the fact that women seem to find the sensation agreeable, so why not give it a try? Maybe someday an enterprising company will make a washer with a seat on top specially for this purpose.

And if you don't have your own washer, you can still pull this off. Just take her to a Laundromat at a time when no one's likely to walk in with a load of whites.

2- Go on the roof
The element of danger or of being seen can make this quite exciting. If possible, climb out there on a warm, quiet night, bring a bottle of wine and a blanket and start out with a mini picnic. If you don't have roof access, bring a blanket out to the balcony and have sex there instead.

3- Do it on the staircase
The stairs are another popular place to have sex. You can stand her up against the banister or take her doggy-style on the steps. She can ride you while you sit down. This is your one chance to use the geometry you learned in school.

And if you live in an apartment, you can always track down a secluded set of steps in your building (the fire escape) and leave your mark on them.

4- Do it in the pool
The thrill of getting caught is alive and well, and the pool is the perfect place to test that theory. Take your girl into the shallow end of the water where both your feet touch the ground so you can easily maneuver into her. Or you can hang onto the ladder or the diving board in the deep end while she straddles you.
5- Get a webcam
The Internet's got everything nowadays, even swinger websites where you can meet couples and have a virtual foursome. Just Google "webcam couples swingers" and that should point you in the right direction. From there, it's as simple as finding a like-minded couple who want to share a webcam feed over one of the many instant messaging programs. Sure, it's a little crazy, but as far as swinging goes, it's one of the safest ways to have group sex.

6- Have sex in the bathroom
The bathroom is the perfect place to get some privacy and there are dozens of ways to position her for sex. You can look at her in the mirror while you penetrate her from behind, you can prop her up on the sink, or you can sit on the toilet while she rides you. And no mention of the bathroom would be complete without bringing up the shower, one of the most romantic places you can sex your lady, if it's done right.

7- Get on the dining room table
This is an age-old place to have sex in the house. But it's popular for a reason: it's a firm, flat surface that can hold your weight. You can make use of the chairs and the table; just clear it off first.

8- Turn out all the lights
Hindering eyesight can lead to bolder sexual behavior. Shut off every light in the house, put on a glow-in-the-dark condom and play hide and seek. (They actually make glow-in-the-dark condoms that are FDA approved for pregnancy and disease prevention.)

And while the lights are out, you can do an unlimited number of other kinky sex acts. Sexual novelty companies also make a surprising array of glow-in-the-dark products like bubble baths, panties, handcuffs, dildos and vibrators, massage lotions, and body

Answer 2

There are so manny things but it all depends on you and what your willing to do. Positions are always fun. My favorite is with my legs over my head. Or places who says you have to do it on a bed, while they are more comfortable, they are limited and put you in a routine. Try the Shower to start. then maybe drive some where secluded and do it in the car. or how about the beach or a pool those are both fun poolis cleaner. Don't be afraid to use a little foreplay before to. Suck on it as if it is a lolli pop or have him finger you. work yourselfs up to the point where you just can't stand to be outside of eachother then have sex. Good luck and have fun!!

Answer 3

First of all if you haven't played around with Handcuffs, their always fun and great way to begin to spice things up. After that it kind of begins to fall into place. Blindfolds, kissing all over their bodies, and just taunting them a little(Give them a little then stop or going over a certain area with your tongue or kisses or even breathing). Those are just some beginer ideas.

Answer 4

Get a sexy little maid outfit or school girl outfit. Put on some porno music ( know sounds crazy, but try it), screw in a purple blue or red light bulb in your room, and do a little strip tease

Answer 5

Cayenne Pepper
Maybe some garlic?
Little of Emerils Bam Sauce and there ya go...

Read a book or a few books with regards to sex ideas/concepts/techniques and then implement!

Answer 6

Put sexy music on

Answer 7

try doing the same as me, go to a sex shop and buy something funny and sexy, it usually works

Answer 8

15 minute of forplay without touching genitals

Answer 9

Play dress up and bring toys!!

Answer 10

let c i wouldnt no personaly but im guessin role play,dress up,get freaky wat ever u need to do 2 pleasue ur self and ur man(may i remind u i dont no nuthin bout this stuff,so im not 2 grown 4 my age)