im doing a reserch paper on why guys can't keep a converstation going with gurls and why do they ask the same boring question do u work what do u liek to do ... and i feel that sometime boring small talk is just that small talk. so what can a guy say to keep you girls interested in them
2006-10-12 08:25:56 · 11 answers · asked by mighty mouse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im doing a reserch paper on why guys can't keep a converstation going with gurls and why do they ask the same boring question do u work what do u liek to do ... and i feel that sometime boring small talk is just that small talk. so what can a guy say to keep you girls interested in them
and what can they ask to find out more about them and to spark the converstation
2006-10-12 08:42:12 · update #1
and what can they ask to find out more about them and to spark the converstation
2006-10-12 08:42:34 · update #2
Just get them to talk about themselves, and when you do "small talk" don't ask questions that can be answered in yes/no or short answers.
2006-10-12 08:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the reason everyone ask those same boring questions is because they're ice breaking questions and they're safe. The way to let a girl know that you're interested in her and not her sex is to not try to push yourself on her all time and don't constantly keep bringing it up ALL the time. Men tend to relate everything to sex. We know that's what you guys think probably 97% of the day, but you don't always have to show your hormones.
2006-10-12 08:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mizz Peni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the woman lots of questions and then pay attention to the answers. Everyone loves talking about themselves and it also shows that you are interested in the core of the person. Be sure to ask follow up questions as well.
2006-10-12 08:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by Killer Nandin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to get through the small talk to find out things you have in common. Once you've covered where you work, what your favorite color, sports team, movie, music, etc. are you can discuss things that you know you both like. Also, if you want to let a girl know you're actually interested in her, not sex, pay attention to what she says.
2006-10-12 08:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, in maximum cases. Me and my guy friends dangle out all of the time, yet we don't replace numbers fist. We in basic terms comprehend them. the area your describing actual looks like he's attracted to her, yet in basic terms if a guy asks a woman to hangout does not propose he's often involved.
2016-10-16 03:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go through with what your interests are, then see if the girl that you have in mind has the same interests as you.
2006-10-12 08:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to what we say and ask questions based on that. It's shows your interested in me and not just my "features". Most important be a gentleman.
2006-10-12 08:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be natural....be themselves....DON'T boast!!! = totally off putting - just be natural - no bullshit.....its the bullshit that gets boring...and remember - it takes 2 to make a conversation...she should be interesting too...oh - and funny - they say laughter is the best aphrodisiac!!!
just be reaxed , real , and not fake....reveal yourself to her , bit by bit...be the same guy she met on that first night as you are six months later...not leave her thinking ''who the f*ck did i go out with''????????
2006-10-12 08:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by chandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see they need to talk more about her and have her describe her feelings and things she likes and try to relate to them build rappore Umm I usually tease women and if she is hot I will kinda ignore her at first but small talk is good only when it leads to talking about her feelings and have a realtionship bewteen you and those feelings
2006-10-12 08:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be a good listener while talking to a girl,,,don't criticize her ,rather appreciate her sincerely and honestly and maintain sense of humor while talking.
2006-10-12 08:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by priya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋