my friend and I just call it off, well i called it off because he is affraid of a commitment. We have been seeing exclusive for a while. What should I do? Would it be wrong to keep him around until I meet someone else? Or should I just continue putting up with him, I must say he is the only man I have ever trusted but besides that there is nothing else.
2006-10-12 08:31:03 · 6 answers · asked by Cowgirl Joe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh you should call 1st. That way you can save him from appearing to be the desperate one. After all, it really is you who is desperate, isn't it?
2006-10-12 08:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have been seeing each other exclusively but YOU called it off coz HE is afraid of commitment? That doesn't make sense. And anyway how can you trust him if he is? You made your choice of breaking up, move on. You probably lost his trust by breaking up with him so stop using him further for your happiness as you want to keep him around till you meet someone. How unfair is that. You think its right to break someones heart to your will and fancy? Thats BS.
2006-10-12 15:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by Liz^24 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be the bigger person and make the move, (men usually don't). It would be wrong to deceive him, if you care about him. If you love him you should get back together and be patient. Give yourself a set amount of time to help him deal with the commitment issues, if after that set time things haven't changed move on, and find someone else on the same level.
2006-10-12 15:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by Phoebe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u have a very valuable and good heart as me. because my girlfriend who is staying far from me always telling me that you have very good heart. and she is thinking like you about me.if i were be in your friend s shoes i supposed to talk with you.please dont insist to accept your feelings to him if he doesnt like it.just try to talk but do it with smooth way.and if you keep your patience time will show you up what you want to learn...
2006-10-12 15:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by hkngle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone you really like. Don't waste your time in a relationship that is going nowhere.
2006-10-12 15:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to stay in a relationship if you know from the very beginning that it will not go anywhere.
2006-10-12 15:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by hyperslackergirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋