I personally got rid of every girl i slept with on the first date after a few weeks of having fun.......i didnt think that type of girl was really one i wanted to take home to mom... and i always figured if she let me sleep with her on the first date she must have done it with others...what would you guys do?
2006-10-12 08:36:29 · 25 answers · asked by camden 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did marry such a girl once. Big mistake.
The next girl I married did not. Much happier.
2006-10-12 08:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by James L 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Then you may have missed out on one that could have made a great partner in your life. I think some ladies do that to easily but that doesn't make them a $lut or someone that you can't be proud of. She may have been so smitten with you that thinking if she did do that that she might be able to hang on to you. Just relying on a person's sexual habits is unfair to you and to them. You don't pick a car that way I hope. I would make myself not to take the first step even if you could so you could get to know someone before you make a decision. Good luck.
2006-10-12 15:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Personally, if that's your only criteria for choosing a life partner, then you are going to miss out on a lot.
Besides, aren't you being a bit of a hypocrite? After all, YOU slept with several girls ON THE 1st DATE! What kind of a life partner does that make YOU for any woman.
Definately a double standard being demonstrated here.
2006-10-12 15:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I guess I should thank GOD my husband didn't feel as you do. We've been together 9 yrs now. Married, 2 kids, house, and I'm a stay at home mom to boot.
For the record. He's the only one I ever slept with on the first date. Never assume anything.
Also: My mother-in-law loves me.
2006-10-12 15:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Would, did, celebrating 20th aniv.
Male chest pounding and moral commandos aside -
Inequity (or dishonesty) are a poor start to a life together.
How can you hold someone else to a different standard than you apply to yourself?
And while I have my soap box out -
While I'm sure it's wonderful for two virgins on the wedding night...I believe it is important to work out if your *preferences* are compatable before you enter a legally binding lifetime agreement...
2006-10-12 16:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by th3hang3dman 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sure. Why not?
I mean we both had the sex so by me having sex means I don't mind that she does. The fact that you slept with her on the first date and the comment about not taking her home to mom makes you sound like a hypocrite.
I wouldn't have any problem bringing her home to mother because I don't talk about my sex life with her. If she relationship material then keep her. If not, move on.
It's okay for women to enjoy sex. They might not enjoy it with you but it's okay if they enjoy it when they're with other people.
2006-10-12 15:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by bmusementpark 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I would hope a man wouldn't marry someone that let him hit as soon as they met. It goes to show the woman has no respect for herself, is easy, and probably a cheater.
A wifey-material woman carries herself well and waits for the right moment... she doesn't let it go quick. So any man in their right mind should not marry a one night stand!
2006-10-12 15:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Right, and we all know you are going to marry a virgin. If I was a women I wouldn't go out again with a man that tried to get into my pants on the first date.
2006-10-12 15:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by lobo 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋
No I wouldn't marry a girl like that even if I had begged her for the sex in the first place. I feel the same way. If she'll give it to you on your first date, she's probably gave it to several first dates!
2006-10-12 15:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by Josh H 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Have YOU really read your question?
You are a whore monger you and your filthy body and mind wallow in the sexual trash AND
Judges the fine and gentle sex as base.
Rot in the wallow sicko.
I'd like to tattoo that question on your forehead so all the women you meet would know how low you are.
2006-10-12 15:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋