she is 27 and slept with?

Question

over 30 males and one felmale will she change over does she just like sex to much and cant say no whats the probleam

Answer 1

she is a skank

Answer 2

I too am 27 with a similar story. I was very promiscuous at 19-22 years of age, but those were my single days. I now am a very faithful mate to my boyfriend of two years, and before that I was married, also, faithful to him. Whenever I've been in a committment w/ someone, I change completely. You can't really call it a COMMITTMENT, when you're not committed. I always used protection, no matter how many partners I've been with. It'd been stupid NOT to. So the answer to your question is yes, she can change. If she wants to be in a relationship with you, that doesn't mean she won't be satisfied with just you, I'm MORE than happy with the man I have at home. My promiscuous past has nothing to do with the kind of person I choose to be now. All you can do is give her a chance if you want to be with her, if she screws up, let her go. Each person is an individual with their own past, you can't hold that against her...especially if she was open/honest enough to share that information with you.

Answer 3

okay not that I believe in that type of lifestyle but what the heck? Would you be friends w/ someone like that? If a guy told you he'd been w/ 30 women? come on there are 365 days in a year...and she is 27...lets say she started having sex at 18...so that is 3,285 days...divided by 31...that is 106 days per sex partner change. Now a man it would be no big deal perhaps even looked down upon in how much of a man he is. BUT when it comes to a woman she's suddenly a slut (for doing what society teaches is OK) but what do you mean she cannot say no? Plenty of days looking at it from my theoritical box. Give her break and tell her you want to be commited. Of course I think you have every right to dump her and look for a virgin to marry if that's what you want...

Answer 4

Shes a woman who has no problem taking what she wants, and considering she told you truthfully how many people she has been with I would say that she is not ashamed of the things she does, which is awesome! Too many women try so hard to conform to what society and the male population deem acceptable that they never truly live for themselves. Sounds to me as if she is, and doing it with her head held high.

Or she has low self esteem and feels that sleeping with men gives her validation, in that case I would be worried.

I prefer to think its the first scenario, but most men and women who answer you will call her a slut or whore, possibly a skank. All words made up to hold women back, I know even skankier men, who gets pats on their backs and lots of attention from the same types of women who are throwing **** at this girl.

Answer 5

if she started having sex at 15, that is still less than three men a year! If she didn't have any long term relationships in between, that is a fair number in my eyes! Anyways, at least she is probably being honest w/ you! I don't know many women who would say they have slept w/ that many people! Why not be the first to RESPECT her.. It doesn't sound like she respects herself. If you help her do that, you might be the last guy she sleeps with.

Answer 6

MOST WOMEN have had alot of partners ,just like men....But the never tell you....but over 30 that means the number is really 50!
She may change but there is a lot of baggage that's comes with that you will never know whats wrong with her unless she trusts you and she feels she is able to tell you every thing without feeling like you are going to judge her.

Answer 7

So she has some experience in this department. Is she intelligent, is she attractive? Is she responsible, does she have a good job? If she is someone you are in love with, and she loves you, than what is the problem? Now if she is a cheap tramp, a loser, a druggie, than you may want to rethink your thoughts of eternal and deep love. I know someone like you are speaking of. Many partners, but is now married and monogamous, and happy, and her husband says he has never been more in love, or happier with every aspect of their life, including their love life. . On the other hand I know of men and women who were married for years, and monogamous, and then in midlife became mattresses. Man just go with the flow. What are you looking for? If she is it, and she commits to you, than consider yourself lucky for as long as it last. Perhaps forever, perhaps not, but life's is a gamble. Good luck.

Answer 8

i am in the same situation man and i will tell you what i think that all the time. I think damn she must love sex and is she gonna get sick of my sex and go to some body else for it. But when it comes down to it, its all about trust and love i know it sounds gay but if she loves you the amount of partners wont matter to either of you. If you do find some way to get over that let me know because i still struggle. take care man and good luck

Answer 9

Not making excuses for her or anything, but a lot of people, men and women both, feel like that's the only way to show love or feel love. I don't necessarily agree with anyone having so many partners, but she can change if that's what she wants.

Answer 10

so whats the probleam i am about that age and i slept with around that much ppl and still doing my thing dont hate

Answer 11

Would you be asking the same thing if it we're a 27 year old male who slept with the same quota? Thats a lot but it doesnt mean anything. I hope all of her sexcapades we're safe sessions. I say we live it at that