I am 22 and have been chatting with an online friend for past 4 years. we never met. He is friendly and caring. But he likes to bug me a lot and recently he has been doing it too frequently and it pisses me of. i just hate him for that but everytime i see him come online, I can't stop myself from messageing him. Last night he did it again and I logged off. he sent many messages saying sorry but I didn't reply him and I cried like a baby. WHATS WRONG WITH ME?
2006-10-12 08:18:33 · 8 answers · asked by 123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
both of us are 22 and I am a girl
2006-10-12 08:20:04 · update #1
u just like him
2006-10-12 08:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you have feelings for this dude! He's head over heels for ya. If you like the other guy that your cheeting with then you should end the relationship with the guy your cheeting on. One of them has to go. The dude maybe messages you so much cuz he's insecured? Or he might be doing it because there's no one else to chat w/, it that's the case show him to a couple of friends online that like to chat alot. There are many things you could do to work it out. Ohh yeah and if you do decide to take my advise on dumping one of them, it's normal to feel sad, it's normal to feel like crying, and all that, I mean they mean a lot to you. They both love you, and leting one go will some how make you feel sad. It's best that way though, at least they could have a chance to live life happy with another person instead of staying with you not known that thier being cheeted on. It's gonna hurt one of them. But it's worth it. Just think of the future they'll have. Think on how happy you'll be with out this guilt, with out this secrete.
2006-10-12 15:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its difficult u like and hate him in the same moment.
Try to to send him just one evening no message..*try it*
and when he send you a message dont answer *try it*
And maybe he learn out of his mistakes...
2006-10-12 15:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are doing to him what you hate when he does it to you. It is a very fine example of the old wisdom of life....you hate in others what you identify in yourself. It is called projection. Work on fixing you and stop trying to change others!!!
2006-10-12 15:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you its like sleepless in Seattle movie how the girl fell in love with a guy over the radio only on the Internet
2006-10-12 15:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by poison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're really not interested in him just block him and get over it.....idk all online relationships like that are sketchy to me...you never know who you're really communicating with- talk is cheap.
2006-10-12 15:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by streetspirit20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uuuumm u care 4 him without ever meeting him its called love at first message,duh!!!!!!
2006-10-12 15:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let it get to you maybe hes havin some fun
2006-10-12 15:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by FLOYD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋