ok so theres this boy an hes always on my mind an i really like him but im not sure if he feels the saem about me. hes really cute an we talk only he usually IMs me first but when he doesnt its hard for me to talk first idont wanna sound like im ubsessed about him but i really like him hes good friends with my friend so should i ask her to ask him what he thinks of me??? please help!!!
2006-10-12 08:18:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could...
You can figure it out pretty quickly though without anyone's help. When a human being sees someone else that they like a lot, their body language gives them away.
If he looks all droopy and sad then sees you and a smile comes across his face... He's happy to see you, he's excited bang... Girls do the same, they light up like a firefly when someone they think is special comes around.
Find out what he likes to do.... If he plays sports... Go watch him play... Pay attention to him, scream loud when he makes a good play, get some of your girlfriends to go with you if you don't want to be alone doing it. "GOOO ________!!! Way to go ______!!!"... When the game is over comfort him or give him a victory hug...
If he likes you, it won't be awkward, he'll welcome it. He'll eat it up.
If he's not into sports... If he likes music and plays in a band... Go to one of his performances with some friends... applaud every once in a while...
Show interest in him and even if he doesn't like you initially... He may develop interest because of your interest in him...
Try it, you'll find out rather quickly...
2006-10-12 08:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut out the middle man. Ask him yourself. If you don't feel comfortable doing it in person, ask him in an IM. It's not chessy, alot of people communicate this way. If he says he's interested, then address it in person. Don't be afraid to make the first move. Some guys like that.
2006-10-12 08:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ally S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him like it ain't no thang, and once you have a few conversations, even hang out (oooOOOooo!) then you get a feel for where he stands, and may even be able to express where you stand. Don't be intimidated by him. Just remember that you may know what you think and feel, but HE doesn't, so don't be shy around him like he knows what's in your head! You're just as cool as he is, and maybe he already knows that if you talks to you! Like kinreep said, flirt! Let him know you like him by flirting!
2006-10-12 08:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
if you guys are good enough friends to be IMing each other a lot, IM him already!
Using the friend-channel method isn't usually the most reliable way to find out such things
Patience!
2006-10-12 08:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ayumi 23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont ask you friend u should flirt a lil with him and if he teases or flirts back he is interested if ur hanging out gently do something to touch him even if u act by accident it will trigger something in him and he will be a lil more relaxed and might tease u saying u did it on purpose then go from there
2006-10-12 08:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by mighty mouse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get your friend to ask him for you... go right up to him, or im him, and ask him how he feels. at least then he'll know you have the guts to say that, and maybe he likes you too. don't be shy to im him. if he ims you, then you should be able to im him without being embarrased that he might figure out that you like him-otherwise, that would probably mean he likes you, since he ims you.
2006-10-12 08:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by luvsoccer53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this...you will probably not want to take my advice, BUT.....Getting IM's means you haven't really met him. Online is not a good way to meet boys. Deal only with the boys who you see every day and know well.
2006-10-12 08:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by gg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend and i were in the same boat with a mutual friend... and i talked to the mutual friend to see what the guy thought about me... and then on aim i started the conversation and talked about "what ifs"... i don't know if you should do that because our situations are probably different but ya know now he my boyfriend so i guess it all worked out. but just do it. you've got nothing to lose. just do it with you im...
2006-10-12 08:24:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are just friends at this point you have nothing to lose by saying a casual "hi" on IM
2006-10-12 08:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure! Maybe write him a note or just ask him after class! There's no harm in that at all!
2006-10-12 08:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋