Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

what does this mean? he says he loves me but we fight almost on a daily basis anymore? our sex use to be the very very best! &now has nearly been extinct? its only when he wants sex that I get sex...we've been together for 3 years now & i love him til no end! but for several months now all we seem to be able to do is fight? just last week i found dirty magazines hidden under his seat in his truck & then a week later i found a porno tapped to the back of our dryer...why? need answers/advice...please, i don't know what to do anymore?...("OUCH"!)...: ' (

2006-10-12 07:52:46 · 13 answers · asked by bashfullyblessed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

both my parents are remarried. who do we put at the top table and what seating arrangements do we have. any help would be much appreciated. thank you.

2006-10-12 07:52:05 · 45 answers · asked by kenoneill28 1 in Weddings

2006-10-12 07:51:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it all started when i went to a funeral with my dad and his wife..at the funeral i met some people that were friends of the family a guy and his brother one was 42 and the other 39...they are both married and one has children my age and one has a daughter 3 years older than me...after the funeral all of the close family and friends went down to the bar to eat (small town only place open that late) and then the guys i had met were buying me drinks like alchoholic ones...and i was getting drunk...most of the family had left and the guys asked my dad if i could crash at their place...and he agreeed and loing story short..they got me really really drunk and had sex with me..both of then i had them separately one after another...and then both of them together....after the funeral i emailed both of them...one of their wives caught them and they got divorced the other one and i have been talking and he wants to come visit me and he is offering to get me a cell phone...ect....what do i do?

2006-10-12 07:51:53 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a stickler for using condoms, I always have. I've been dating a new guy for the past 3 mths and I've told him this. However, last night, I put one on him and found out out after that he removed it. I could just kill him for putting my life at risk that way. I havent spoken to him since. I just cant. Give me an opinion somebody. I really liked him.

2006-10-12 07:51:43 · 9 answers · asked by Aria 1 in Singles & Dating

that i hate it when he smokes all day long he is with his friends all day and then when he feels ike it he will call . i am starting to get impatient and well im starting to hate him what should i do i dont want to break up i just want to get revenge even though its childish i want to do it give me an idea anything it doesnt matter then when im done with him i will break it off .

oh yeah dont give me advice on my relationship just an idea ok some people get way into the situation i already know what to do but i just want to hurt him the way he hurt me after all i need to have fun because after this im not dating for a couple of months

2006-10-12 07:51:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've just started dating a guy, I met him about a month ago. I was wondering what some fun, cheap dates are...the "dinner and a movie" thing is going to get old fast. Our school is in a small town (about 25,000 people) and it seems like there's not a lot to do.

2006-10-12 07:51:12 · 4 answers · asked by EP 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy who works at Acme he's really cute and he looks almost like my ex boyfriend. Except he's shorter, skinnier and way cute and hot. I want to ask him out and he does like me.
Would you go out with a guy who has the same name as your ex?

2006-10-12 07:50:55 · 15 answers · asked by riotgerrl 1 in Singles & Dating

ok if your boyfriend that's now your EX- boyfriend had been cheating on you, and during that time it was occuring his best friend started hanging out with you all the time, keeping u company, sharing his thoughts with you. well basically trying to get at you or at least let you know how he feels. so after you break up w/the ex, he cuts off his friendship with your ex- boyfriend and decides to full court press you to start dating him. well i suppose my question is this, is it wrong to start dating your ex's old best friend? i mean not out of spite or anything malicious, you and him just get along real well, theres no fighting or jelousy or anything like the old relationship i had with my ex. i mean it's not right after we broke up i have stalled him for like 5 months untill i felt ready and i'm ready now. is it a wrong thing to do? the only problem is that the ex keeps showing up uninvited just to make his old friend pissed, and things uncomfortable. please any ideas?

2006-10-12 07:49:49 · 24 answers · asked by CHERRYSCION 3 in Singles & Dating

dont mean on here i mean in general, like today my mate was going in to town so i asked if she was getting the bus and she replied, no im flying duhh. she could have been walking, getting a taxi getting a lift. so why am I the duhh one.

2006-10-12 07:49:09 · 20 answers · asked by charlie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

would you go to the e.g. club and wait till a guy comesforth and talks to you or do you go to the club and actually find a guy you like and go over to talk to him

2006-10-12 07:46:58 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

george page 46,maple st. tottenham court rd.

2006-10-12 07:46:57 · 4 answers · asked by peter c 1 in Family

t..........ive met men who say, all woman are, then you meet men that say theyre not.............so, what is it?
Everyone knows a mans intentions, are woman the same?

NB- I dont wish to be sexist or cause offence by any means with this question, If I have offended you then I apologise in advance, thanks.

2006-10-12 07:46:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it to protect yourself or someone else?

2006-10-12 07:46:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this kid at my school who just got suspended last week for 5 days for sexual harrassment. He asked me to the homecoming dance, and I said no. That's not the problem. After I said no, he was really hurt, i think, and didn't talk to me for the rest of the day. The next day, he sat next to me, and (besides the reason he was suspended) he is really nice. He told me that he was going to send me a "candygram" thing. How can I tell him, without "killing" him, that I don't like him? I don't want to be mean, its just that I can't be wit kid with that sort of new reputation, it would make me look like a....well...you know. I'm confused!

2006-10-12 07:46:08 · 6 answers · asked by ~T♥ri 2 in Friends

2006-10-12 07:46:07 · 2 answers · asked by Delenn S 2 in Family

2006-10-12 07:45:30 · 4 answers · asked by tatevik115 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Dang that priest is fast!! not fast enough though. Anyway, I discounted the lawn gnomes to $2 a piece. Plus I dug holes in his lawn too. He needs a better shotgun. Those one shotters with the trumpet bell barrel just don't do it anymore. Who's got my back? I need to get rid of these gnomes fast. Nuns are relentless!!!

2006-10-12 07:44:58 · 6 answers · asked by jackalope_00 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 07:44:17 · 24 answers · asked by mom18 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, I caught my husband last night looking thru my dresser and then turns around and says that he was looking for a missing sock (lame excuse). I know that he was lying to me because earlier that day he was looking at my phone. I don't mind him looking at it because I can look at his also but it was just odd behavior. I haven't done anything so I don't know what his looking for. Any suggestions??

2006-10-12 07:44:07 · 21 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that?

2006-10-12 07:44:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been "talking" online for about 2 weeks.

2006-10-12 07:43:56 · 8 answers · asked by asking 2 in Singles & Dating

i feel silly for asking but what does deep like mean? Guys when you deep like someone is it almost love..

2006-10-12 07:43:51 · 3 answers · asked by Paige 3 in Singles & Dating

How do you get out of an abusive relationship if you have nowhere else to go??

2006-10-12 07:43:50 · 5 answers · asked by Angie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

4 yrs ago my fiance (now husband) took the opportunity to go out with his hi-school crush while I was out of town on business. (not telling me) A friend called me while I was away & told me she saw the girl at a gas station & stopped for a few moments to chat w/her, while there, the girl told my friend that she was on her way to the bar to meet (MY FIANCE).next morning I call my fiance, ask him what he did the previous night & he tells me he spent it with his parents. When I continously questioned he continuosly lied,Until I told him I knew he finally came out & told me that yes he had went bar hopping with an old friend nothing more. Come to find out later he had seen her months prior & made the arrangements then, so he had these plans to go with her the whole time & never told me, then lied about it. ok, so yes we are married now etc.. because I chose to believe him, however I still find myself going back to it & getting pissed, I still think he's lying about what happened

2006-10-12 07:43:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband's family are all living with us and are freeloaders. I try to give them hints as to how to find a job so that they can be independent. but nothings work , the worst is that my husband (his highness is what I called him) doesn't see this as wrong because he feels bad that he is succesfull and his siblings aren't. help

2006-10-12 07:43:07 · 24 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Family

i need help ladies and gental men

2006-10-12 07:42:25 · 22 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Friends

2006-10-12 07:42:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 07:41:54 · 21 answers · asked by Tri 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 07:41:38 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating