I'm a stickler for using condoms, I always have. I've been dating a new guy for the past 3 mths and I've told him this. However, last night, I put one on him and found out out after that he removed it. I could just kill him for putting my life at risk that way. I havent spoken to him since. I just cant. Give me an opinion somebody. I really liked him.
2006-10-12 07:51:43 · 9 answers · asked by Aria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel like you want to continue with him (I wouldn't) You have to let him know that if you 2 are to continue it will be with condoms....if you even feel you can't trust him DON'T GET WITH HIM AGAIN.
Keep in mind NO DICK is worth your life.
2006-10-12 07:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without your knowledge or permission he took the chance of exposing you to a potentially fatal disease; in court this is called "reckless endangerment" at the very least, so stay away from him and by all means have yourself tested now, and again in six months to check for HIV infection (or any other possible STDs). Remember, if he did this with YOU, he quite likely did the same thing with OTHERS, so there's no telling what he might have picked up on the way and is now passing from woman to woman!
2006-10-12 08:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you need to have a long talk and see if you think you will be able to trust him again. Not sure if you know it but condoms do not keep you from getting pregnant 100% of the time. Here is some things for the both of you to keep in mind.
Reports show that approximately 85% of youth in prison, 85% of children with behavioral disorders, 75% of adolescents in substance abuse treatment centers, 71% of all high school dropouts, and 70% of adults serving long-term prison sentences come from fatherless homes. Fatherless children average significantly higher in terms of teen suicide, illegitimate birthrates, incarceration and unemployment. 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes. 90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes and 85% of all children that exhibit serious behavioral disorders come from fatherless homes. Because only a portion of each age group grew up in a fatherless home, these statistics mean that children from fatherless homes are 5 times more likely to commit suicide, 9 times more likely to drop out of high school, 10 times more likely to abuse drugs, 20 times more likely to end up in prison and to have behavioral disorders, and 32 times more likely to run away than their peers who grow up in intact families with both birth parents. These trends persist even when socioeconomic factors are controlled for.
2006-10-12 07:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a question of trust. If there is no tust the relationshipp is doomed. Try to salvage your relation asking him why he did that. You are not his property, you are his lover, and therefore the trust must be reestablished
2006-10-12 07:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by fukallmonkeys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have sex with him you gotta consider his feelings too about using a condom talk to him and see why he did it and if he says he will never wear them and then you can end it if you cant accept it
2006-10-12 07:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that really showed lack of respect for you. How can you trust him after that? If you really did explain it to him, then he just choose to do that, i dont know he cares about you.
Bottom line, sounds like a real selfish jerk
2006-10-12 08:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that actually depends on you. If you have known him for just a short time try to have an HIV test. ( If you are really afraid) and if you love him, do not end it.
2006-10-12 08:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by MK <>< 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your body. You're in charge.
2006-10-12 07:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he respected you he would have neva done that...that`s eally bad!!!!!!!!
2006-10-12 07:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by nanapu17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋