Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

I caught my husband cheating on me. I befriended his misstress, got her druck and had her picked up for DUI...was what I did pretty bad or was it justified? O and I divorced him a year ago...but still wondering what I did was wrong?

2006-10-10 08:01:56 · 45 answers · asked by ArticExplosion 2 in Marriage & Divorce

honest men gone, or am I right in thinking there is none left,

2006-10-10 08:01:36 · 20 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Singles & Dating

A good friend of mine passed away and today I am feeling his loss, but I am now angry as well as weepy - Is this normal?

2006-10-10 08:01:33 · 5 answers · asked by jmoore0003 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do other single moms feel lonely and is it right to want to just get together for sex and not any thoughts of a realationship. After all moms need attention to.. and i am really picky about who i want for a realatiolnship and potential male role in the home.. whereas i would be less picky and have lots of opportunity for just sex from guys who would not really be worthy male role canidates or serious relationship types.. that would take care of my lonliness and physical needs. I of course would meet them outside of the children's knowledge and outside the home. I am however having huge moral issues about as i was raised religious.. what do you yahoo people think? Also what do guys think about this .. is it fair to the guys that i am in a sense just using to meet my physical need?

2006-10-10 08:01:02 · 17 answers · asked by hotredhead2655 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 08:00:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

their are lots of single guys out there but not the ones we are looking for?

2006-10-10 07:59:27 · 30 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Singles & Dating

i cant seem to get him off my mind!! what can i do! im 14

2006-10-10 07:58:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think it’s rude for someone to ask to attend your wedding?

For instance, my step-sister has friends that I know as acquaintances. The other day when she, my step-sister, called me she asked how the wedding planning was going. And all of the sudden I hear her friend asking her, to as me, if she can go to my wedding. Normally this would not offend me but due to what ever reason it did.

Am I wrong for thinking that she is rude for that?

I mean I have seen her a few times….. but she and I have no attachments, other than my step-sister.

2006-10-10 07:58:36 · 52 answers · asked by girl_in707 3 in Weddings

I always see ppls kiss ...i haven't had my 1st real kiss but im afriad when i do i'll screw up..how do u know how to kiss right ...dose it just kick in at the last momment or what..p.s i have gave a boy a peck on the lips..im talkin about a real kiss..ladies help!

2006-10-10 07:57:36 · 4 answers · asked by peppermint 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 07:57:29 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my bf for a little over a year now and we live together and I am now seeing that I can actually and do want to marry this guy and be with him for the rest of my life but there is one thing I think about is I am 23 and he is 37, the age does not bother me now but I am thinking in 15, 20, 25 years from now he will age before I will and I get sad thinking what am I going to do without him when he passes away because when he is 70 I will be 56. I know I shouldnt be thinking like this but at times that seems to pop in my head. How can I look at this at a postive perspective? Has anyone been in this same situation and have any advise?

2006-10-10 07:57:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my childs father walked back into our lives after 11 years, of nothing 4 months ago, we slept together a few times, I told him it had to end because his relationship with his child should come first, and you guessed it, when i called it off he walked away again, and has has no contact with his child since, why, I love this man so much and he said he had changed and yet its the same lies again and again, my child just wants a dad, is it to much to ask, really?

2006-10-10 07:57:14 · 14 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Family

My fiance, has purchased a home for me and my children. We are getting married in a few months. My previous marriage I had to file bankruptcy, so our broker said to wait another six months and my name will be put on it. I was always the one to do everything and now he does it. When we talk about the house I feel like a loser.....like I dont deserve it to be mine. I make more money than he does and I pay equal if not more of the bills. Should I feel bad or not? please help

2006-10-10 07:57:08 · 1 answers · asked by Shana H 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

say a boy likes this girl but they dnt no eachother n have never spoke
how would/could he flirt with her?

2006-10-10 07:56:29 · 10 answers · asked by SophieKayy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 07:56:17 · 5 answers · asked by babygirlseck 1 in Family

i recently found out my partner as been phoning a sex line and now our sex life has went down the plug he dosnt know that i know about it i only found out because the number was on the phone bill what do i do

2006-10-10 07:55:57 · 25 answers · asked by cheeky 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

phone number to call him. The reason was because I wasn't giving him enough attention that week because I was stressed out over having a cyst on my ovary that was possibly causing pain during intercourse. I told him I needed to find out what was going on first before we have sex again. So I had his password from myspace and decided to look at it and found out that he was talking to a girl that wanted just sex and nothing more.....he didn't cheat but it sounds like he was about to until I confronted him.....should I break up with him or give him another chance? He says he has changed for me because he loves me. In his past he has cheated on almost all his girlfriends and they have cheated on him too...
He is begging me to stay with him because I have made him a better person. He use to do drugs too. Help!!

2006-10-10 07:54:42 · 22 answers · asked by ~MEEEOW~ 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 07:54:16 · 16 answers · asked by Lolita 2 in Friends

My roomate who is also my friend does not contribute to things like toilet paper shaving cream, dishwasher detergent ect. I am always the one buying this stuff for the house and I am tired of it. I left him a note and asked him to pick up these items for the house. he went to his parents house and got one roll of paper towels and 6 trash bags and the rest of the items he did not contribute. I am tired of this, I have spoken about this with him in the past and nothing has improved, he pays me cash rent weekly and does not have much left over from rent or chooses to spend it going out on BOOZ. Any suggestions I am at my wits end. OH and he only cleans when i ask him to or he see's me doing it. Not fair

2006-10-10 07:54:07 · 15 answers · asked by pauliesoxin04 1 in Friends

Long story short, I dated a girl for 3 years on and off. She has a son who, for the past 3 years (half of his life!) I have been taking care of. She never worked, never helped with rent, and drank constantly. When we were broken up and she found somewhere to live on her own and her son was not properly taken care of. Several months ago she went to jail for awhile and the son went to live with a grandma. When she got out she had nowhere to live so I took her in like an idiot. After being out for a month she went right back in with a 6 month sentence for violation of probation. She told me the grandma could not keep the son and asked if I would take care of him until she got out. So that's what I have been doing and doing an amazing job...suprising myself! So Mom is getting out in 1 month. She cannot live with me as she is planning, but if I tell her this I know her son will not be in good hands. I want what is best for her son and for me...and she is not it for either of us!

2006-10-10 07:54:06 · 3 answers · asked by Jennifer L 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

have you noticed.......they all start "love is the answer bla bla"

2006-10-10 07:54:03 · 15 answers · asked by charlie 3 in Singles & Dating

My x-girlfriend want to get back with me and she think if she talk to my mother ever two day that my mother will talk me back to her. She is so crazy if she think that. LOL

2006-10-10 07:53:27 · 3 answers · asked by Brownsugar 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy but hes shy & I dont want to rush him into the wrong answer because I sent him the wrong social cues.
Ive put so much time into him that my friends are telling me to let it go. but in my heart I cant because I feel I have to be honest before I make such a snap desicion.

2006-10-10 07:53:12 · 2 answers · asked by hey_yourmothers 1 in Singles & Dating

act in way viewed as not acceptable? How do you deal with those urges?

2006-10-10 07:52:57 · 24 answers · asked by jak 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I keep swearing to never talk to this one ex now that I'm married. We dated for 4 years and were eachother's "first" in most everything, so I'm really attached. I know it's bad for my marriage, almost 6 years now, and I can go a few months without talking to the ex, but then I get depressed or nostalgic and look him up again. Anyone solved this problem for themselves?

2006-10-10 07:52:50 · 23 answers · asked by NotProduct 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-10 07:51:08 · 43 answers · asked by jessie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

please, i dont want to get a divorce, we have been married for almost 2 years and have a daughter together.

2006-10-10 07:51:08 · 59 answers · asked by Kaleigh P 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend want to be together but it seems that it won't happen because of my parents. He's an amazing person but it seems there is a racial issue with my mom. My dad well he would kill him but anyways I tired not to date out of my race but I didn't mean to we were friends for a while and it turned into more. We don't want to brake up but it might happen there is too much pressure to keep it a 'secrect' all my friends know but I too afriad that my mom is going to hack into all my things she has one of my email addresses and passwords and my Myspace password and my Cell phone which I haven't had for a month now. But I don't know what to do I really do love this guy I haven't felt this way. . .ever well what would YOU do?

2006-10-10 07:50:35 · 5 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my name is ragland thats why i am asking it...iwish to know the maening of my name..

2006-10-10 07:50:22 · 1 answers · asked by raglandenator 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 07:50:06 · 8 answers · asked by pooponaduck06 1 in Singles & Dating