I caught my husband cheating on me. I befriended his misstress, got her druck and had her picked up for DUI...was what I did pretty bad or was it justified? O and I divorced him a year ago...but still wondering what I did was wrong?
2006-10-10 08:01:56 · 45 answers · asked by ArticExplosion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The misstress was his ex girlfriend...of course she knew he was married...she broke up with him...and she and I started talking...and I invited her out for drinks
2006-10-10 10:34:10 · update #1
It was evil, underhanded, devious, and perfectly justified. I admire your creativity. Please, under no circumstances should you feel guilty about this. She made the decision to ruin your marriage, drink alcohol (you didn't hold a gun to her head) and then get behind the wheel of a car. All's fair in love and war.
2006-10-10 08:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Grudge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have only dealt with your husband because he is the one that was committed to you. We always want to get the woman but, not always do they know that the man is married. The man knew from the beginning what he was doing. Shame on you for hurting the wrong person. You know the old saying what goes around comes around! So be aware .
2006-10-10 08:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Wanda E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no that wasn't wrong! Besides you weren't twisting her arm to drink then made her get into her car and drive off. The girl had it coming. Sure you may have picked up the phone, but you were just worried about all the other drivers out there.....haha
2006-10-10 08:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by laranita82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it was sneaky and probably a little immature but, you were hurting and let's face it, she was drinking and driving! Next time maybe you just want to let Karma pay them back. Doing mean spirited things in the name of revenge won't take time back. Learn to let go and accept that sometimes, bad things happen in life.
2006-10-10 08:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by NannyNooNoo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, it depends on how you look at it. Did you do this after you were divorced? The only thing that I think is bad about this, is this : You didn;t take into consideration, what the arrest would do to her. It could have ruined her life, and made her lose more then jsut a marriage. Adn besides, why would you want to do this. She didn't hold a gun to his head and make him f*ck her. He did it out of his own free will.
2006-10-10 08:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by nycgrl 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Only you can really answer that for yourself. I can say there are probably a lot of women reading this that love it. There are a lot fo us that would have loved it if we could have stuck it to the other woman. But, did she even know he was married? Plus, he is the one you should have really been mad at. She could have been an innocent bystander if she didn't know he was married.
2006-10-10 08:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by Social_D 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If she didn't know he was married, and you did it merely through being hurt, then wrong. And she probably didn't know if you befriended her. You should just have divorced your husband.
The right thing to do would probably to confess to her and the police. The courts will deal with you in the way you deserve.
2006-10-10 08:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by Jim 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Man your my kinda woman good going
2006-10-10 08:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by xlhdrider 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it was wrong but what's done is done now you just need to let go and forget.
2006-10-10 08:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by christi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have done the same thing! brilliant! "Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer"
Definitely justified!
2006-10-10 08:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by ur a Dee Dee Dee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋