Do other single moms feel lonely and is it right to want to just get together for sex and not any thoughts of a realationship. After all moms need attention to.. and i am really picky about who i want for a realatiolnship and potential male role in the home.. whereas i would be less picky and have lots of opportunity for just sex from guys who would not really be worthy male role canidates or serious relationship types.. that would take care of my lonliness and physical needs. I of course would meet them outside of the children's knowledge and outside the home. I am however having huge moral issues about as i was raised religious.. what do you yahoo people think? Also what do guys think about this .. is it fair to the guys that i am in a sense just using to meet my physical need?
2006-10-10 08:01:02 · 17 answers · asked by hotredhead2655 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong with that. Like you say, you have needs too.
2006-10-10 08:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by flashpro 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way and found a man to meet those needs. It was a mutual relationship. I have since moved on to a wonderful relationship with a man who will make a good father. However, I have remained friends with the other guy. I never see him alone though. One never knows where it could lead and I really care for the man I am with now!
2006-10-10 08:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by just me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not religious, so I don't confuse morality with sex.
Seems to me that being clear that you just want sex is much preferable to wanting sex but getting into a bad relationship because of it.
I say, go for it.
Just don't fool the guys into thinking you want a relationship. Lots of men would be very happy to have a sex buddy, and don't mind being used for sex, the way a lot of women do. (Just steer clear of the romantics, as they will misconstrue your interest as romantic rather than sexual.)
2006-10-10 10:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been involved in booty call relationships for the past 7 years and see no reason to do differently UNTIL I am ready to get in a serious relationship (which I have NO interest in any time soon) To each his/her own but this is what works for me. I am not a religious person (non-believer) so obviously that helps. I have NEVER exposed mykids to my personal doings and they have NEVER seen or known me to be with anyone but their dads. Its safe sex with a consenting adult and emotions have NEVER been an issue for me or my calls.
2006-10-10 08:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm a single mom & yes I do get lonely but with all the nuts & pedophiles in the world I'd rather be lonely than take a chance of a nut coming near my daughter
2006-10-10 08:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think as long as you are discreet, careful and the boy toy knows what you're expecting from him up front, that there is nothing wrong with it. You are right, we single mothers deserve to have our needs fulfilled too, and it's not as tabu as you might think.
Just be very careful.
2006-10-10 08:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by HotK 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am single mom, and I do agree that we do get lonely, but I don't agree with going out and sleeping around with people you don't know. Think about the things you could be bringing home to your kids and not even know it.
2006-10-10 08:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by lynn_j252000 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well I had a few one night stands and a guy who became a friend with benefits. Worked out well for us both.
2006-10-10 08:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Mon need sex some of the time
2006-10-10 08:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-10-10 08:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by alla a 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋