Me and my boyfriend want to be together but it seems that it won't happen because of my parents. He's an amazing person but it seems there is a racial issue with my mom. My dad well he would kill him but anyways I tired not to date out of my race but I didn't mean to we were friends for a while and it turned into more. We don't want to brake up but it might happen there is too much pressure to keep it a 'secrect' all my friends know but I too afriad that my mom is going to hack into all my things she has one of my email addresses and passwords and my Myspace password and my Cell phone which I haven't had for a month now. But I don't know what to do I really do love this guy I haven't felt this way. . .ever well what would YOU do?
2006-10-10 07:50:35 · 5 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Have you tried talking you your parents about your feelings?...Seems like they don't trust you at all!!!...your mom seems to be so protective!...Have you tried talking to a counselor in your school?...I think it would help if someone talks to them. If nothing happens...well..wait until you are grown up enough for them to accept you are an adult and you can take your own decisions.
I think that racial thing is just crap!...you should love someone without caring about their culture or their skin color! So if you really love that person...and he is a good man who really respects you and cares about you...Take care of the relationship and give it time to grow.
Wish you the best!
2006-10-10 07:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by There! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going threw the same thing but my parents dont go into any of my stuff but yea it gets really old trying to hide it but me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 yrs now and WE believe that if we really love eachother it will all work out one day things just take time and later if u guys do work out u will then have to exsplain to ur parent how they cant control who falls in love its it just happens
2006-10-10 14:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by smooches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would continue your relationship with this guy until you're able to move out of your parent's home. If your mom is snooping through your things like that, I would say to break it off until you move out. You don't mention how old you are, but it seems pretty young. If you guys are meant to be together, you will survive this time apart.
2006-10-10 14:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by kizzykay86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Until you are 18 years of age, you need to abide by your parents rules, then when you are of age you can do what you want. Just make sure it is true love, because friends may come, and friends may go, but a family is forever.
2006-10-10 14:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by nevada nomad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on how old you are !
2006-10-10 14:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋