Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

My ex husband finally left a month ago but since then I havent received a penny for our 10 year old. I am on benefit now so money is tight. I dont want to go to the CSA unless I have to but I have no idea how much to ask for. Does it depend on ex's earnings? he is in between jobs just now.

2006-10-10 08:14:38 · 14 answers · asked by ? 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-10 08:14:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have an EXTREMELY attractive ex-bf. we went out for a long time i broke up it im cuz EVERYONE said they saw him cheatin but it turned out not to be true but i couldnt get over myself and ask him to go back out. so then my BEST FRIEND went out wit him...they broke up about 3wks-1mnth ago because he had to move. he called me from his new place sayin how he never shoulda went out wit my friends cuz he has feelins for me. now hes back and i think he likes me still but my friend is still all over him cuz she thought they were still goin out and she found out the truth today and was sad n stuff but then when i told her i still like him she was ALL over him AGAIN...so i was wonderin if i should still date him...

2006-10-10 08:12:56 · 24 answers · asked by mielxmezclada 2 in Singles & Dating

Here's the basic scenario, because I know certain factors play into it. He is 36, I am soon to be 30. I was married once before, but have never had a wedding (the first marriage I eloped at a justice of the peace). We are financially stable, my fiance makes the money, not me, I am still barely making it. What is customary to expect from our parents as far as expenses for our wedding? Or are we considered too old to have parents help pay for the wedding.

2006-10-10 08:12:28 · 26 answers · asked by Olive Green Eyes 5 in Weddings

2006-10-10 08:11:55 · 4 answers · asked by bite me2 1 in Friends

me and my g/f lived with each other but we just broke up. she was going to move back in then alot of stuff happened at her rents house with her dad and stuff now shes not. she said she wants to move out of state with me in less then a year and says shes not moving on but where she is now he ex lives 2 house's down from her i dont know what to do

2006-10-10 08:11:44 · 3 answers · asked by paul w 1 in Singles & Dating

its a web relationship. i think i spelled it right (polyamorous). i would never do such a thing and i am not against it even though i dont think its right. im women enough to get everything done on my own, i dont need another women to complete the fulfillment of my mans needs... IM ALL WOMEN. theres only one me that he needs...what do ya'll think about a polyamorous relationship?? i think that if you really love someone you would never even think of sharing him...you would want ya'lls love life to be private. no one else should watch or join in. and you should only want him/her to yourself. do ya'll agree with me?

2006-10-10 08:10:49 · 6 answers · asked by LoVeLy 3 in Singles & Dating

I always hear about people having sex and usually it happens in a bed. But what if you don't have a big bed? Do people buy big beds just for enjoyable sex? I'm 26 never had sex but i wonder about many things as you've noticed in my questions

2006-10-10 08:10:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WHEN I WAS 40 I HOOKed UP WITH THIS COLLEGE GIRL OF 18 she live about 1000 miles away and was a freshman , and away from home for the first time, to make a long story short it lasted about 5 months and about 3 days a week she came to my home we had foreplay only i never went the whole ten yards , i took care of her when she was down or missed her family bot her a few things but never gave her $$ for sex i respected her .
i still think of her even now , was it wrong ?

2006-10-10 08:09:47 · 11 answers · asked by jamietogood 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

He is a real nice guy real good looking no other guy has ever treated her as nice but he is trying to get with me too he tells me that I am way better looking than she is and I have a better body (she is real over weight) and he just wants to do me no relationship nothing just wants to screw I dont know if she is just not giving him what he needs in bed or what but he keeps trying he tried to kiss me and i just dont know what to do! now on the other hand she treats him like crap she is mean to him and treats him like he is a child and he just spoils the C R A P (buys her anything she wants) out of her I kinda dont think she deserves him but if he is going to cheat on her are they just meant for each other or what?

2006-10-10 08:09:02 · 5 answers · asked by JUst ask 1 in Friends

not a break.. break but a day apart? is it a good idea? is it good for the relationship? i think it was a bad idea cause i miss him like crazy!!! but thats what i wanted yesterday.

2006-10-10 08:08:48 · 16 answers · asked by alisha 4 in Singles & Dating

My wedding is not until next year, but I am having a problem with one of myu bridesmaids. I want all the dresses to be the same, as is traditional. She has insisted that she has never before heard of the bride picking out the bridesmaids dresses and has insisted that if she does't like what I pick out that she will not buy it or wear it!

Why would she do this? I can't believe her, I am so upset!

2006-10-10 08:07:51 · 33 answers · asked by bridetobe 1 in Weddings

he keeps texting her saying stuff that she already knows and he says at the end of the texts love so so and i thin kthat is wrong because you dont send that to a friend if they have a boyfriend, and still he doesnt get it,

2006-10-10 08:07:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Guys, especially, can you tell us if this is a true saying? And let me know your status (married, single, divorced, dating...)

2006-10-10 08:06:51 · 8 answers · asked by Lanie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i need to know my cousin's man is not cheating and i just wanna read about other people's misfortunes, to be honest. thank you.

2006-10-10 08:06:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 08:06:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

into the house. Is that normal for women? Not just a hello, but a really loud "HI!"

2006-10-10 08:06:44 · 11 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you know if a guy is interested in you, not mostly just your body? Be specific with your answers, please.

2006-10-10 08:06:08 · 9 answers · asked by chickiepoosie 1 in Singles & Dating

The other day my boyfriend said he was feeling broody, I thought uh oh, bloody hell. Then a minute later he said that he can't imagine ever being settled down enough to have a baby! So I thought, right so does that mean we're not going anywhere? What does this mean?

2006-10-10 08:05:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 08:05:51 · 8 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-10 08:05:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It is our 10 year anniversary in a few weeks. I already have a cabin with hot tub and jacuzzi tub rented and the best restruant to go out to. Any other suggestions to make our 10th special?

2006-10-10 08:05:05 · 14 answers · asked by me4tennessee 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi im getting married next year and im wanting to know how to go about getting the perfect tiara and jewellery. Im not sure how to get one tham matches the my dress and once i have bought it i wont beable take it back and the ones in the bridal shops are expensive. Can anyone suggest some ideas.And maybe let me know where i can get some good looking cheap ones. Thank you.

2006-10-10 08:04:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have this constant date for 8 months now....and I'm just curious if he is falling inlove with me..so funny coz everything started in a one night stand and we have agreed that everything will just be a one night stand. But after one week, he asked me for a date and we have been dating until now....he is not asking for sex though..do you think he is falling in love? or what? if not I think I have to kill him...hehehe

2006-10-10 08:04:14 · 13 answers · asked by tata 2 in Singles & Dating

My dilema:

1) I used to be popular. But I was pretending the whole time, never really enjoying myself. So I told the popular kids I quit and...
2) They got so pissed off at me.
3) I realize now that their friendship was real and I am better off with them then with the losers I hang out with now.
4) The only problem is, my "loser" friend told me that my old popular friend said she didn't want her boyfriend to talk to me anymore, even though him and I are still good friends.

HELP!

2006-10-10 08:04:06 · 11 answers · asked by coolbluepot 1 in Friends

my gf left me a month ago, reason is i got her prengent,i want to take responable of her and take care of her but the baby couldn't be kept due to madical reason, so at the end of the day, we decided to go for abortion, after the abortion she say she need to cool down, so i had no chioce but to let her go, mean while i did do my best to show care and be there for her, give her everything she need, after a while , she came back to me, but she just can't forgive herself and me for killing a life, so she left me again, she say she really need time to cool down and get things over, meanwhile while she get things over, she did try to build up our relationship between use, but i mess up, so now i got to build this relationship up again, she say she still got feeling for me, what should i do, i really want her back and take care of her , please help me

2006-10-10 08:02:49 · 11 answers · asked by allen l 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 25 and have been married for almost 7 years I have 3 children and a stay at home mom.I find it very difdacult to make friends. My husband and I are close but it is not the same as having a day out. What can I do? I have tried people my age their out clubbing and I just don't do that.I have someone all ready what do I need to go there for. The ones that have just got married don't want to go out. Where are all the good friends?

2006-10-10 08:02:48 · 13 answers · asked by roni_lane81981 2 in Friends

it's a very uncommon story. i proposed a girl in really rude manner, inshort i hurt her and i realized it after som day's.now she dosn't want to talk to me. but, i really in her love and i feel my life is incomplete with out her. i can't forget her as it'll resemble me a coward doctor leaves a patient when he dosen't have any choice abd i have a choice either to apologize her or to prove her my love by taking som time. now you people decide and tell me wat to do, i can do anything for her accept killing my self;b'coz i want to stand by her and support her in every circumstance. (remember she rejected my love.)

2006-10-10 08:02:44 · 10 answers · asked by vown 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a master boy , any girl in egypt wanna to be a slave and submitted to me , plz answer me , i need it to build our relationship

2006-10-10 08:02:37 · 5 answers · asked by medo a 1 in Singles & Dating

Why? he is away for his work. What to do?

2006-10-10 08:01:58 · 28 answers · asked by kiran123 2 in Other - Family & Relationships