He is a real nice guy real good looking no other guy has ever treated her as nice but he is trying to get with me too he tells me that I am way better looking than she is and I have a better body (she is real over weight) and he just wants to do me no relationship nothing just wants to screw I dont know if she is just not giving him what he needs in bed or what but he keeps trying he tried to kiss me and i just dont know what to do! now on the other hand she treats him like crap she is mean to him and treats him like he is a child and he just spoils the C R A P (buys her anything she wants) out of her I kinda dont think she deserves him but if he is going to cheat on her are they just meant for each other or what?
2006-10-10 08:09:02 · 5 answers · asked by JUst ask 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They both sound like jerks. He is a cheat and she doesn't know how to treat people she supposedly cares about. Tell her what he has been doing if she doesn't believe you she will soon figure out the truth.
2006-10-10 08:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly his friend you will not give in, because if you do you will not only hurt his fiance, but him too! Don't give in, as much as his asks or how tempting it may be, resist it! Confront him with the truth and tell him what you feel is morally right. Tell him to ask himself if he is ready to commit and if he will truly happy? Because the way his marriage is starting there is a high chance of them getting divorced so save him the trouble and talk to him! In the end if he decides not to get married and you and him get together you will have started the relationship right without a guilty mind or feeling bad for cheating. I hope you make the right choice and the best of luck!!
2006-10-10 08:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by Alessandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you ever think that maybe she put him up to this to test your friendship? If not then I think you should tell her because he is going to cheat on her and make her life a living hell . if she is your friend you must tell her what he is doing and give her a better life cause if you let her go through the wedding you are not a friend to her.No they are not meant for each other cause if he gets treated badly by her then why does he still want to marry her? You need to start asking yourself these questions.
2006-10-10 08:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot judge another person's relationship when you are not the one in it. You can never truly know all the details of what causes the problems other couples have. If she was truly as bad as you say, he wouldn't be marrying her. Obviously he is a cheater, so maybe that is why she is crappy with him, and maybe he kisses her butt because he has done wrong. No he shouldn't be getting married if he is going to cheat, of course not. But don't make this your problem by involving yourself, don't give it up to this guy, and please don't get any crazy ideas that he may change his mind and be with you if you spread your legs for him. You said he is your friend, he doesn't want to be with you, but he wants you to screw him. It sounds to me like he doesn't even respect you.
2006-10-10 08:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is ur friend tell her and if she doesn't believe you then video tape it happening, but do it before the wedding.
2006-10-10 08:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋