its a web relationship. i think i spelled it right (polyamorous). i would never do such a thing and i am not against it even though i dont think its right. im women enough to get everything done on my own, i dont need another women to complete the fulfillment of my mans needs... IM ALL WOMEN. theres only one me that he needs...what do ya'll think about a polyamorous relationship?? i think that if you really love someone you would never even think of sharing him...you would want ya'lls love life to be private. no one else should watch or join in. and you should only want him/her to yourself. do ya'll agree with me?
2006-10-10 08:10:49 · 6 answers · asked by LoVeLy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree 100%. I don't want to share mine or want anyone else to have him either. I guess that makes me selfish.
2006-10-10 08:13:04 · answer #1 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What turns you on might not turn someone else on. So for anyone to judge another's fulfillment as good or bad isn't taking the others interests into consideration. Think of all the things you love to do in bed. Now think of a few things you'd NEVER do with your partner. I can guarantee you that the odds are very good there's someone out in the world right this second who has the exact opposite desires and bedroom activities as you do and she's wondering how someone like you could do what you do.
If it's something I don't enjoy or do with my partner, I simply agree to disagree and leave it at that. Trying to figure out why someone does what they do when it's not something you could understand is like trying to figure out a mathematical equation using a hammer. You'll get nowhere fast. If it's something you might like to look into or talk about, then enjoy and I do wish you luck in your exploration. If its not your bag baby, then I wish you enjoyment with what you Do like. Me? I feel the way you do. But then I have a more sexually adventurous side so it's hard to say what I'd like at any given moment. If you ate nothing but lime jello for 364 days a year, and I asked you what you wanted on that last day, I'd bet my left one the last thing you'd say is lime jello. It's in our human nature to enjoy variety. And it's equally a part of our nature to like different things from one person to another. Good luck.
2006-10-10 08:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PA relationships and threeways almost always leave one person feeling extremely left out. Even if the two try to make thethird person feel included, you can tell that the ongoings are very intense between two of the people and they are just having pity on the third.
Having said that, if you can handle the complications AND the resulting screwed up emotions, three ways can really be loads and loads of fun.
2006-10-10 08:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by profdave99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. I would get jealous most likely. This is a bad example, but would you rather have your own car or share a car with someone? Sometimes you can't afford or have a choice to have your own bedroom, bathroom, car, or house without sharing it with someone, but at least you can decide if you want one person date, marriage,etc. without having to share them with someone else. That is if they aren't cheating on you.
2006-10-10 08:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats mine is mine! I don't like to share! And I know I am enough for one man...want references...lol..JK
2006-10-10 08:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's Polygamous. But who cares!!! hooray for you!!!! Al you need is one man to love you, and you to love!!! God Bless you!!!
2006-10-10 08:15:07 · answer #6 · answered by alfonso 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋