I have an EXTREMELY attractive ex-bf. we went out for a long time i broke up it im cuz EVERYONE said they saw him cheatin but it turned out not to be true but i couldnt get over myself and ask him to go back out. so then my BEST FRIEND went out wit him...they broke up about 3wks-1mnth ago because he had to move. he called me from his new place sayin how he never shoulda went out wit my friends cuz he has feelins for me. now hes back and i think he likes me still but my friend is still all over him cuz she thought they were still goin out and she found out the truth today and was sad n stuff but then when i told her i still like him she was ALL over him AGAIN...so i was wonderin if i should still date him...
2006-10-10 08:12:56 · 24 answers · asked by mielxmezclada 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when i said "still date him" i meant to ask if should ask him back out...
2006-10-10 08:15:14 · update #1
for girls it usually makes a guy more attractive when another girl likes him...or if the guy likes you and not her...so shes gonna try harder....its really ****** up that she dated him after you two broke up in the first place...there is an unspoken rule for girls that friends dont date friends ex's and you dont date ex's friends but thats another story....no offense but your friend is being a ***** and she doesnt actually care about you...i wouldnt trust her...the only way i would go back out with that guy is if i knew for sure that he didnt like your friend cuz they could f*ck around behind your back and neither of them would tell you.
Either way there are soooo many guys in the world....its usually more fun to have a guy your friend likes, like you even though you dont like him back ;)...cuz he can't have you and she can't have him...its really the best of both worlds :)
2006-10-10 08:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 04:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not. Your friend don't sound like much of a "friend". You may need to wonder about HER instead of him! If my friend told me she was interested with someone I had dated, then I would back off and if HE wasn't interested, then I would give it a shot. An idea, you two should go out somewhere where you two may be able to talk without your friends butting in and see for yourself if he is REALLY interested in you and take it from there. You can sometimes tell how things are between you and the one you care about by things they say AND/OR act. Hope things work out or you. Try to at least trust him a little more this time around and less of your so call friends. How does HE act with her? Does he seem to be interested in her or is it just her?
2006-10-10 08:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by GardenGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would. Your friend didn't care anything about you when she went for him knowing that you really into him and all. That makes her, NOT a REAL friend at all. Seeing how he told you that he still has feelings for you, ya, I would so jump on him with 'going out again' in a heart beat, and I would not give two thoughts about your friend. SHE is NOT your friend. Not if she is acting like that. YOU were with him FIRST and if you go after him again, YOU will be the one with him AGAIN. I really hope you do. It sounds like you really do care for this guy and hate that you broke up in the first place over a bunch of lies from everyone you know. I wouldn't make that mistake again. Learn from it, and don't listen to others anymore........... trust him, and trust your trust in him. BLessed be.
2006-10-10 08:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not quite understanding the girlfriend, but I would say sure give it a try.
If and this is a big IF, it was all a misunderstanding and he has approached you to date, go for it. Everyone deserves a second chance and it sounds as it you both would like to date each other.
2006-10-10 08:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by Harley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you had him first you have rights, she had no place dating him after you did so dont feel bad about that.
If you think he is capable of having true feelings for you then go for it girl, theres nothing wrong with dating ex's maybe befor it was just the wrong time in your lives.
Good luck to the both of you and I hope everything is bliss between you two!
2006-10-10 08:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by InProgress:-) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, we can always get back BUT be cautious. If it did not work the first time, why would it work now? Have you guys really changed as people? Have you guys really understood the reason you broke up not to do it again? My dear, in life we can everything but we have to respect other people's feelings and above all we have to respect GOD and ourselves. We can not step into other people's rights or hurt them just to please ourselves. Follow your heart and be happy, but always cautious. Good luck.
2006-10-10 08:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on with your life. Because, if you get back with him, you will have drama with your friend. And, if she really was your friend. She wouldn't have been with him AT ALL. You need to move on from both of them. Because, if you find somebody else, will she want him too. BE CAREFUL AND GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-10 08:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by loves2dream2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember why you broke up and how you felt, and things might be better but if he did want to be with you no matter what he shouldn't be with one of your "friends" if they messed around and both are part of you life most likely they are bond to do it again.
2006-10-10 08:18:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never liked the whole re-dating ex thang NOT to mention he dated your friend...come on! I say move on.
2006-10-10 08:16:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋