WHEN I WAS 40 I HOOKed UP WITH THIS COLLEGE GIRL OF 18 she live about 1000 miles away and was a freshman , and away from home for the first time, to make a long story short it lasted about 5 months and about 3 days a week she came to my home we had foreplay only i never went the whole ten yards , i took care of her when she was down or missed her family bot her a few things but never gave her $$ for sex i respected her .
i still think of her even now , was it wrong ?
2006-10-10 08:09:47 · 11 answers · asked by jamietogood 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
=sounds like both of you cared for one another at that time and were both lonely and needy. Some might think you both took advantage of one another and perhaps it is true. Yet you kept her safe so to speak. No it wasn't wrong because at the time the means fit the needs.
2006-10-12 01:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinysusan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love has no age limit,...
Obviously it seems like you have deeper feelings for this girl
Keep in mind there is a great age difference, You will not be at the same point or maturity in your lives.
Don't be let down as this is ten years later.... She may have found someone else since then and settled down.
2006-10-10 08:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The part that made me laugh was the line "I respected her." Uh huh. You respected a teenager college girl so much you had intimate sexual relations with her, knowing she was far from home, a freshman in college and probably very lonely. You didn't respect her, you were a predator and used her. UGH.
2006-10-10 08:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's obvious you have conflicting feelings over this. Only you can make yourself feel better about it either way.
Personally, I would wonder if you took advantage of a naive girl. But, I also have to give her credit for her own actions. I'd also have to wonder why she sought out such an older partner.
2006-10-10 08:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by Sativa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No why are you asking? Are you feeling guilty of your action 10 years from now? It seemed harmless but is there something else your not telling us? Why would it bother you now? Hmmm very strange question I may say.
2006-10-10 08:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fine to me. I'm 18 and live with my 35 year old boyfriend.
2006-10-10 08:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by Eileen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is that wrong? I like older men myself. As long as you were not married, and no one got hurt, why do you feel bad? you were a nice guy.
2006-10-10 08:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live life to the fullest. when you in an old age home all you'll have left are your memories. at least you'll have great ones
2006-10-10 08:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it was wrong you were both consenting adults!! you both knew of the arrangement in the relationship and i guess it was great while it lasted.
2006-10-10 08:14:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sounds like nobody got hurt, so...
2006-10-10 08:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋