How do you know if a guy is interested in you, not mostly just your body? Be specific with your answers, please.
2006-10-10 08:06:08 · 9 answers · asked by chickiepoosie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a guy truely likes you, he will wait until marriage for physical intimacy. When a guy comes up to me, and he puts his hand even on my shoulder or tries to hug me, I know that he is not all that interested in getting to knoiw me as a person. I know that the main reason he is touching me, is because he wants to get in my pants, and he is testing me out to see what I will do about his hand on my shoulder or his hug. Usually guys will try to see if I am easy by telling me I am really pretty, and giving me hugs or trying to ask me out. I hate this. I worked in retail for a while, and I would get guys coming in and asking for my number, or leaving me thiers. No, I didn't flirt or use any kind of suggestive body language.
Guys that want to use you will be more forward than they should be.. If a guy loves you and wants to respecty your beleifs on intimacy, he will be the one..
Hope my answer helped you.
2006-10-10 14:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by Cyber Spacer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters you know when a guy is interested in your personality when he talk to you and looks into your eyes instead of looking down at your boobs. Another way of knowing is if you talk on the phone alot. shows that he is really interested in what you have to say. I've seen many relationship start over the phone. Basically, if he is able to speak to you without having to look at you then yes I do believe he is interested. Plus, I happen to know that many guys hate to be in the "friend zone". Probably the only time I see that they enjoy being friends is if the guy is gay. This is just from my experience though. I wish you the best in finding love.
2006-10-10 08:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by laranita82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy is askin ur friends for information about u or he tries to have little conversations with u then he probably likes u. more things he might do is try to make eye contact with u wen u 2 are in the same room. he will most likely flirt with u. those are just some of the ways u can find out if a guy likes u. the simplest way to find out but that might be akward if he says no. so there u go, HOPEFULLY this helps.
2006-10-10 08:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow Guys are strange in there way of letting girls know they like them (I have four brothers and one almost brother in-law). well a lot of guys stare at you. They playfull hit you or when you hit them they act like they are dieing. if they hang out with you a lot and want to know everything about you that is usually a good sing. that means they are interested in more then just your body. if they have to touch you all the time they usually want your body.
2006-10-10 08:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by starriko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy wants to hang around with me but never asks questions about my life I know he is just after one thing and I leave him alone. A good way to realize what a guy is after early on just pay attention like if he asks for your phone number before your name he isn't worth knowing.
2006-10-10 08:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hangs out with you and your friends
hangs out with you during the day
calls to talk
trys to find out about you
listens to you
2006-10-10 08:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand why you asked only for american girls cos they are a different breed
2006-10-10 08:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you can always ask if he likes you, but in order to make seem suttle ask him about other girls also. i do it all the time and it works.
2006-10-10 08:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch his eyes the eyes tell all
2006-10-10 08:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋